I have noticed so many questions concerning porno and playboy I think it's a shame how men can make women feel disrespected and hurt by their stupid habits with this stuff my husband thinks porno is nasty and he doesn't go for magazines either I love him so much for not being perverted don't you think your spouse should be enough for pleasure???
2006-09-02 18:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are too many perverted men out there. It took quite a deal of arguing with my husband to get him to stop watching porn. I don’t even know for sure that he’s stopped, or if he’s just found a way to hide what he’s watching. He claims that every guy watches it, but I know that’s not true. Maybe if women refused to have sex with any man who watched porn, this disgusting habit would stop pretty damn fast.
2006-09-02 18:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by zaradulce02 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
My fiance doesn't use/watch/read prono anymore, not since we got together. He did before we met as he didn't have a girlfriend for several years and he lived alone. He gave all of it up once we met and started a relationship. :) He feels that there is no need to see any of it or use it since he has me at home. As he says, I am more than enough to keep him busy so he won't have to resort to that stuff! AND he doesn't believe in using it while in a relationship anyway. I NEVER told him that I don't like the stuff or that I don't like guys seeing/using it because of the damage it did to my previous marriage, and he told me all of this!! I totally trust, love, and respect him-not only for all of this, but for many other things as well.
2006-09-02 18:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being content with ones spouse. But some enjoy sex as recreation, and can separate the recreation from the love they have with their spouse. You don't want to do those things that's fine. Those who do, so what? Many women enjoy porn as well.
Why is it those with realigous convictions think they can look down on others?
2006-09-02 18:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband did at one time, and after i told him how it made me feel, and he realized what he was doing was wrong for our marriage he stopped.. he doesnt look at magazines, he doesnt look at porn on the computer, and he doesnt own any porn videos... he is a devoted husband.. and a loving father that wants to be a good role model for our sons, and he knows that we are raising our sons to be "real" men that arent womanizers ..that and the fact that i told his momma lol.. jk..
REAL men live by their marriage vows every day, not just when its convient to them, and in ur marriage vows u said to FORSAKE ALL OTHERS.. well unless u said except for porn, that meant the women in porn too.. ur spouse is suppose to be put up on a pedestal and to come before everyone.. any man that feels the need to look at porn shouldnt be married.. its one thing if the couple agrees to something and they do it together and enjoy it, its another when one of the spouse is being substituted for someone on the pc, in a movie, or in a magazine, and the only men that DEFEND the right to be married and look at porn are those that are disrespecting their wives by looking at it.. and the only women that are defending the right of their men looking at it are those to stupid to realize that it starts out as innocent as looking at pictures on the pc, or in a mag, then when that gets boring they move on to something alittle more taboo, then when that gets boring they take it another step .. till eventually they are the girls on here wondering how come their husbands are cheating or how come their man just left them for another woman.. i am so sick of hearing " all men do it" , that "its inate in a guy to want to" that " its better then him cheating" if ur needing someone other then ur wife to get u aroused, picture or not its cheating..
If u need to look at other women naked, then u shouldnt be married and have zero clue what it takes to have a healthy marriage..
2006-09-02 18:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait a minute- your chastising men for how women feel?
Are you serious? If your self esteem is low that's your problem not ours. Not everyone has the same sexual hang ups as you and your husband and what consenting adults do is no ones business but their own. If you don't like men then stop hanging around them! It's just that simple. Oh ya, and by the way, your husband is a liar.
PS- I'll bet your sex life is about as exciting as a baked potato.
2006-09-02 18:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Steve N 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
all men like porn, unless of course they're very religious, and there's nothing wrong with that. As long as it does not interfere with their every day life. I wouldn't mind if a guy I dated watched it once in a while, because if he makes me think he does not, then he's hiding and doing it and I would not want that
2006-09-02 18:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by venus11224 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very much enough to please my spouse...he never looks at porn and doesn't by magazines or anything like that...he says if i can't do the job no one else can
2006-09-02 18:07:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for men (as well as women) to enjoy porns and if they are not...thr something wrong with them..but yes it should not be a hinderence in ones life..be it in the married life or life in general...too much of anything is bad
2006-09-02 18:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by roddur 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husband is the same way..but i call him a prude...LOL....
2006-09-02 18:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet he's lying. any man that doesn't like a naked woman is lying.
2006-09-02 18:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋