She lives somewhere around Peachtree City. She has been described to me as extremely skinny with gaps between her teeth. She is 21 in college, has a room mate (I think her name is Stacy)who has a boyfriend named Rick. Oh she also has a brother named Jason. To be honest I feel sorry for her b/c he has conviced her he is divorced, he even made copies of my divorce papers from my first marriage to prove he was when I told her he was lieing. He has her so wrapped that she thinks I am crazy and just wanting him back so I try to chase all his girlfriends away. She actually cried after I talked to her, not b/c she believed me but b/c she just could not believe someone could be so mean to him!! Like I said I do feel sorry for her but at the same time if she wont listen to the truth she kinda deserves it. Sorry for the rambling! I realize this is pathetic but I'm curious. I also realize the chances of someone out there really knowing her are slim so please only answer if you REALLY help me.
2006-09-02 17:56:31 · 18 answers · asked by SpecialK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To heck with him and her!!! I'm sure you are a great person and an awesome wife with alot of love for your husband. Not all men would do this to you, some of us are looking for someone just like you, and please no matter what this asshole does to you just remember some of us want to be faithful and live a normal life just like you. You deserve better and he deserves what he gets. I'm sorry I don't know the chick but I've been in your shoes and wish someone would have told me when I felt alone and betrayed that I was valued and cared about. I feel your pain and betrayal and know how you long for answers about what you may have done wrong but I can tell you from first hand experience that thoughts like that will only drive you crazy. His betrayals are only about his own selfishness and not about you, don't let him blame you or put it all on you. Sex is but one of many parts to a healthy relationship and if he wasn't ready to be faithful he shouldn't have gotten married. Its not your fault, please know that.
I truly wish you the best
2006-09-02 18:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want me to help you ? Then what you really need to do is to let all this go. Your all consumed with a man and a situation that sucks. What kind of life is this to live ? You feel sorry for her ? She's 21, she'll walk away from this with no problem. He has lied to you too. Now look where you are. Walk away from all this and get your sanity back.
2006-09-02 18:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm wow alot of information.. yet ur putting out so much effort in letting her know ur still married, yet ur husband is the one actting as if he isnt married, maybe u need to stop worrying about her so much and start worrying about what ur going to do with a husband that will go as far as showing proof of a divorce decree to someone to prove he's not married to u? ur priorites need to get straight, she's not the one married he is.. although she is under the impression that hes not, u need to leave the poor girl alone and stop airing her name, and where she lives over the internet to possible loonies.. ur husband is the lying cheating bastard, he's just stringing her along for the ride, but u could of just put her life on the line depending on who may see this.. damn is ur husband worth that much to u, that u'd let him get away with murder, and put an innocent girls life at Risk??? just doesnt make sense to me, hell im even starting to believe his side more then yours cause ur actting irrational..
2006-09-02 18:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound so smart that i think that you are divorcing this "man" if we can call him like that you have to be strong. i know is nice of you trying to give her an advise but is going to be hard to her to think that's true, so forget about her and keep going on later she'll realize that what you told her was true, but is going to be to late.i know this hurts a lot, trust me, but there's no other way than move on with your life, that there's someone else better than him that is waiting for you.
2006-09-02 19:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by chiquika 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only are you airing dirty laundry but you are doing it on the internet,How would you like it if someone gave your complete name as well as the city where you live and to top if off your roomates name and her boyfriends name to,you seem to be more worried about his girlfriend than she is about you but the person you need to deal with is your Husband not this young lady also why are you still with him letting him disrespect you and above all shouldnt you be airing his name all over the internet to warn other women about the LOSER that he is.any man who doesnt know how to treat the woman in his life=loser just my opinion.
2006-09-02 19:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
R u sure that you want to keep your husband ???? you know that he has a girlfriend , and you did confront her about that ,,, But also I would help you slap the bleach off her hair ,, my guess that she is a blonde ,,, just tell her to back off your man ,,honey I really don't think that he is worth it at all.....
2006-09-02 18:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by E.M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dogs is definitely-known with of my sons call. I ask her to locate Oskar and she or he runs to him. that is probable because he's really somewhat one and that i'm continuously retaining his call, and were at homestead most of the day so she's listening to me call his call a lot :)
2016-12-06 04:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your divorce, and mail her the copy of that one..with the date highlighted!! Attach a note on it saying that his sorry a$s is all hers now.
2006-09-02 18:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, divorce your husband. Don't stay together for the kids or anything, your husband sounds like scum.
2006-09-02 18:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fix starts inside yourself – know what you want and the rest will become clear.
2006-09-02 18:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋