im a foster child so i dont think ppl like me cuz of that.ppl r scared at me cuz im a foster child and they dont noe wat it means \!i hate my life.and i like this guy nic and my bestfrend asked him out and now there goin out.i hate my life so much.im sittin here cyrin.do u think its right 4 wat my frend did n im only 11.do u think my life sounds horrible?
2006-09-02 17:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by i luv nic paul 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
do u think my life sucks cuz im in a different house every week,wat my frend did,and im sittin here cryin cuz my life sucks
2006-09-02 17:39:48 · update #1
For you your life seems horrible and out of control. This to will pass. You have not been given a chance to be a kid. At age 11 you should not have to worry about losing your boyfriend to your bestfriend. I am so sorry that you have been shuffled around to so many homes. You must feel a sense of rejection when you have to leave again and that is normal but painful at the same time. You are angry and lashing out at the people around you and you don't feel very loveable. Right now you are probably not, because you are trying to keep people at arms length so they can't hurt your feelings. Again a very normal thing to do in your situation. Sweet heat I wish i could tell you that life will get better but you still have your high School years to deal with. I encourage you to write. Write down all of your feelings. Write poems and songs. Do things that make you feel good about you. Good luck sweetheart.
2006-09-02 17:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just answered your other question and putting the two questions together I don't think you want people close because you are scared of making a connection with someone because you move so much. It is not because you are a foster child. Hang on Nic will be available again. You all are only 11 and you can work on getting the nerve to ask him out. People do care about you or else you wouldn't even have your friend that asked Nic out.
Is there a case worker that you can talk to about how you are feeling? Sounds like you are really down right now and need a dependable adult to talk to! Hang in there! All of this is making you a strong person!! Keep on asking questions!! You will find the answers!
2006-09-03 00:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by tod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweer heart your making me cry. I just wanna reach out and hug you. Don't ever let someone make you feel like your unloved. Just remeber this saying "the person who makes you cry and hurt is not worth your tears or pain and the person who is worth your tears and pain will never make you cry or hurt." My sister tells me that all the time. I hope you feel better hunny. If you need to talk or ever need a friend heres my email address bk_bikini_girl@yahoo.com I will always be here for you if you ever need to talk. good luck HUGS
2006-09-03 01:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is not horrible. You have your whole life ahead of you. If that person was really your friend you could talk to her about it. Tell her the truth. if she doesn't accept it then she is not your real friend. Talk to an adult you can trust. You will have plenty of loves in your life. be carefull to not jump the gun too fast. Find a friend who is good to you & your feelings! Cheer up.
2006-09-03 00:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by Casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well im a foster child too.. i kno how it feels if u need 2 tlk just IM me....i kno how it feels and things u might be going through.. plus i am 16 and i kno how it is 2 be 11..
2006-09-03 00:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by ღ~♥~ღKCღ~♥~ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds better than how my life used to be. i didn't even live in a foster home. until about 3 years ago, i used to live in homeless shelters.
2006-09-03 00:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tenten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why haven't you asked Nic out? He might like you more than your friend.
2006-09-03 00:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to church become a chistan and have god in control he can make your life better
2006-09-03 01:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.. you can take therapy.There are lots of guys... and cheer up.Be good u can choose families,lol.(supposed to be comfort)
2006-09-03 03:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋