My cousin Rochel got murdered. she got kidnapped when using a payphone her parents thought that she called a friend and slept over since it was the beginning of the weekend. But , her parents were wrong a 40 year old man and women kidnapped her shot her then raped her and then cut her into 5 pieces and her boyfriend found her body in a local trash place. Yes i said her boyfriend. And now i relize how much she mean;t to me i only spoke to her once but now i feel like i have a connection wth her. What do you think?
2006-09-02 17:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by London qirl . 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes it was all over the news she died last year but now i relize.
2006-09-02 17:15:43 · update #1
Relize that she wasn't juss some cousin that i spoke to once.
2006-09-02 17:16:12 · update #2
I think this story is sad. I feel you can only pray to god and ask him to help you through this. Also, after my sons death I wrote letters to him and went to his grave and would read these to him. I then buried them an inch or so in the dirt where he is buried. He was killed very suddenly. May God bless and be with you my child.
2006-09-02 17:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by sweethometexas2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure - as you get older things like this can become clearer to us. My best friend was murdered in high school - she stayed home to work on Mother's Day while her family took a trip to Rhode Island and her neighbor - who was a very sick schizophrenic man strangled her on her lawn and hid her body in the bushes a few yards down. It killed me then cause we were so close but as I get older, I see and feel different things about it.
So - however you feel about this sick thing that happened to someone you love - it is ok.. no matter how you feel. There could be a connection. I still feel one with my bf - and it has been 10 years. wow 10 years but I still see her sunshine and sometimes will see something in someone else that reminds me of her - in the scariest way - like too much. This is totally normal and I am so sorry for your loss and pain. Try to realize that people go through stages after they lose loves ones - grief, anger, denial, etc so it may have taken you this time to get to where you are at -under all those other initial reactions - to get to how you really feel about it.
Try to just thank God or whoever you believe in - or just be thankful that you knew her for the time that you did and were blessed with her in your life - like she was and is an angel - that is what I do.
2006-09-03 00:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope that you and can overcome this tragedy and I am sorry for your loss.
My friend had a girlfriend that went to a club and they found her raped, beaten and set on fire in an alley.
He loved her and drank his life away for about 10 years.
He finally quit drinking and found out that his drinking was covering up an illness..Diabetes.
He drank for the sugar in the alcohol and would pass out and start drinking again when he woke.
He now has to take a shot at least three times a day and cannot get it stable.
You should seek counseling if you are having a problem with getting over this!
2006-09-03 00:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a horrible death
She was a blood relative, but distant
It was all over the news
I think you are hung up on the news story about her life that you never really knew about. but are now connected because of it.
The mind is a funny thing, isn't it?
I had a cousin who died a horrible death. She had an older sister who all throughout the wake, funeral and bearevement period enjoyed the attention she received from school mates as if the light of stardom was placed on her..not her loss...I never saw her cry over her sister or say anything for that matter... but did see her bask in the attention. I never forgot it and she still hasn't changed and its been many years. Strange huh?
2006-09-03 00:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think of this story? Very tragic indeed, but I am wondering what your question is? Are you wondering why you feel a connection with a cousin that holds no family bond for you? Well only you can know that! Perhaps some similar experience, age or common occurrence has linked you to her? The lack of closeness wouldn't mean that it couldn't vastly effect you.
2006-09-03 00:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is very traumatic and you need to get some professional help. it is very possible that you may develop post traumatic stress syndrome and it could really give you problems in the future. I am so sorry for your loss,. I have been through many traumatic uncontrollable situations that are equally as disturbing and tried to handle it myself and ended up very depressed with other mental problems, so I advise you and hope you get some help soon like now. lots of love to you. and your family. sorry for your loss,
2006-09-03 00:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if is this true,i am so sorry just try to have connections with all the members of your family
2006-09-03 00:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo lady, i think youz gotta think your life over. reflect on some important sh1t that you need to in your life. then ask youreelf this question, "hey, did i really know Rochel?" then the real answer is in your heart.
2006-09-03 00:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by joe shmo 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Powerful and frightening. (Those are my favorite types of stories) You really really know how to put together a good story.
Good Job.
2006-09-03 00:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Laz♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa.. thats really sad. im sorry for your loss
2006-09-03 00:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by hco_meredith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋