I been with my boyfriend for about two years now. We went to Six Flags one day and he decided to get on a ride and I waited for him by the exit. Out of the blue I see my ex-boyfriend come up to me and give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I was suprise and nervous to see him after all he was my first love. He was holding my hand the whole time when he was talking to me and out of nowhere he kissed me right in the lips and my boyfriend seen and confronted us. I told my boyfriend I didn't kiss him that he kissed me but he doesn't seem convince and he doesn't trust me. Our relationship is not the same its like a hi-bye and now my ex is coming around and wanting to be with me again should i work on my relationship with my boyfriend to believe in me
again or give my ex a second chance?
2006-09-02 16:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
move on
2006-09-02 16:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by meangurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the both of them. Your ex is an ex for a reason, right? And the boyfriend you have now doesn't trust you and since you are considering giving your ex a second chance just shows that you don't truely care for the boyfriend you have now.
2006-09-02 23:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by mrs.dennis.10.6.07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on which was a better boyfriend. Obviously you are not with your ex for a reason, and are with your current boyfriends. Unless you are sure of your feelings for your ex, you should try to work it out with your boyfriend. Also, if your ex knew you had a boyfriend, it doesn't say much about his character if kissed you.
2006-09-02 23:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kristel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he is an ex for a reason, think about it, secondly look at the discomfort he has now brought into your life with your present boyfriend.
it seems that neither partner would be a suitable relationship as one is jealous and the other is an ex, think you might want to tread new waters for a new boyfriend you can trust and him trust you
2006-09-02 23:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even considering the ex boyfriend it means you are totally committed to your current boyfriend. Men are not toys you just decide to play with this one today and the other one tomorrow. I would suggest you take some time to yourself to decide what you want in your life because you are clearly not ready for a serious relationship.
Good luck!
2006-09-02 23:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i just have two questions. who is more important? what happened with your ex to cause you guys to break up in the first place? if your current man is more important than forget about your ex even though he is your first love. nothing should be more important to you than the man you choose to be with. secondly if you have broken up with your ex why do you think it will work this time if it didn't the first? i don't know why you broke up with your ex but you did and now you have some one new...forget the old and work to save the new. sorry i know its not much help but it is still your call.
2006-09-02 23:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by mysterious_wisper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your current boyfriend obviously feels that the ex is a threat and knows that he can lose you that is why he doesn't trust you at this point. If he is upset - he has reason to be - sounds like he loves you and doesn't want to lose you - but you have to be honest with yourself - Which one do you want??? You can't have your cake and eat it too with these 2.
2006-09-02 23:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by swim32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You allready knowthe answer I think, but here goes I beleive your ex is messing in where he don`t belong and unfortionatly he has done the damage with your boyfriend go with your heart always.
who do you really love? weigh the proes and cons you we`nt with the ex any more why just food for thought good luck and take care
2006-09-02 23:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by brown 25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, reconsider why you and the ex became exes to begin with. And think about you boyfriends feelings about this. What would you do if his ex came around?
2006-09-02 23:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have confidence in ex boyfriend move on. Men are like that. In this they are more possessive.
2006-09-02 23:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by chandra m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. Trust is easy to break and hard to mend.
2006-09-02 23:26:49 · answer #11 · answered by Joy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋