Because you have children?
2006-09-02 16:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by you*I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i believe it would be better to be alone and the father or mother to just visit with the child. two unhappy people in the same house the child will be able to tell and may be unhappy right along with them.
2006-09-04 16:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can answer this from first hand expierence.. Yes I stayed for fifteen years for my son.. There wasn't to to much yelling and screaming... More of a roomate style thing with sex thrown in every now and then..
Was it fair to her? To waste those years. Probably not... Regrets for not leaving sooner? If I had I never would have been with Marie so no...
Was it the best thing for my son? To shield him from all the turmoil and pain at such a young age I would say yes. Not that it was easy for him at seventeen but being a bit older he understood better. Now that he is off on his own at college hes ready to make his own way...
2006-09-02 23:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO . I ended a 10 year relationship w/ my bf. I stayed w/ him that long because of the kids. No more. I was tired of my kids seeing us fight all the time. Plus, I knew there was someone out there that I would really love. Ya know, the way you know you're supposed to. Don't stay unless you really think it will go back to being in love. Good Luck.
2006-09-02 23:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should never stay with someone because of the children. That isn't healthy for any of you. They will pick up on things and will sense a distance between you and your spouse. It really isn't a good idea.
2006-09-03 00:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by aleynam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but other conditions would determine whether I stayed or go. Not if I do or don't love them. Besides I love everyone. The problem is I don't spend a lot of time around certain people.
2006-09-02 23:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mike's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I don't have the means to leave, then I will stay. If he is unfaithful to me, jthen I will be unfaithful to him when I get the chance. Other than that, I will live with him as if living with a stranger.
2006-09-03 04:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was a good man and good father, but for some crazy reason i just fell out of love with him, yes i would, why screw up my kids lives based on my own personal feelings?? they didnt ask for me to get married, they didnt ask to be born, and its not their problem that i fell out of love with their dad, my feelings, my personal needs, ect.. became 2nd to what they need, and their feelings the day they were concieved.. ,
2006-09-02 23:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.ITS FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE CHILDREN.I WOULDN'T LIKE THE CHILDREN TO MISS THEIR DADDY.AFTER EACH ONE TURNS 18, I WOULD LEAVE HIM.
2006-09-02 23:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by Mio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, as long as you at least like the person you are with. If you hate or dislike them.... then, the answer is no.... leave, for all involved.
2006-09-02 23:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have...but it only lasted so long. I could no longer take the abuse.
2006-09-02 23:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Ma'am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋