i wish i was white, hispanic, asian, or east indian. I hate being black. i hate it so much. It's like everyone thinks black girls are ugly. I've been rejected because i'm black from whites, black, mixed race, latinos, asians, etc. if only i was something other than black. i would be so pretty and all the boys would like me, especially the black boys.
2006-09-02 15:52:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
well we all wish we could be something different, no one is an acception.
2006-09-02 15:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
humm...you are miserable.
unless you pull a Micheal Jackson,
you have to learn to love and enjoy yourself.
This only happens when black person isn't really educated about who they are. I feel/ felt the exact same way you do. I used to hate myself.
I'm kinda lucky, I live on a college campus with an African-American center where I could easily go and learn about who I am and why I deserve a place on this green earth. It only comes about when society makes you feel as if you have no real place here. If you dont have access to information, then contact me, and I promise I will try to find you some info,
'kay Hun?
and by the way, being white does not mean beautiful. Think of it like this, If white was so pretty, then how come thousands of talented whites get rejected for movies/modeling/T.V etc. Male and female. Even when they are indeed attractive. The skin does not make the person. And how come ugly whites get prize jobs/positions. You seem to feel they are all pretty, explain that.
and guess what? To reiterate!! you are black, get used to it cause it ain't changing.
2006-09-03 22:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being all of the above. I am a german-indian, black-cuban. I never was accepted into any social ethnic group because I didn't exactly fit in. It took me til I was a junior in high school to find people that didn't really care what color I was they just wanted to be my friend. You will find them too. Just look for the ones that seem aloof sittowards the back of class and may be the class clown. Life gets interesting with these fun free-spirited people. You won't have a care in the world. But being who you are is the most beautiful thing you can be.
2006-09-02 22:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be something else wrong with u? or maybe u live in the wrong place? how can ur own race not like u, where do u live where the people think black girls are ugly, black is beautiful, i love being black. if u wish u were white or so y dont u ask michael jackson what he used, or ask the asians how they get their eyes to be chinky so u can be like them. u r disgracing God, he made u like that for a purpose.
2006-09-04 22:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_jemise 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate the stereotypes put on black girls...
I swear like practically every black girl goes through this... feeling rejected ...different...quite annoying especially if you're the only black girl in your area/school/group of friends- just be proud of who you are..what you are-- you are not ugly... thinking you're ugly b/c of your race..and wanting to be something else is ugly...no one will want to be around you with this negative attitude--
2006-09-04 02:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by 1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to love yourself and accept as you are god loves you without condition you hate drop this idea from your head and let it go when you say black girls are gly you adding oil to the fire you have to be positive because you adding to collective mind and that idea grows i don't want hear that i have 2 black friends women best women on the planet god bless you with love head up and praise god beside that times are changing we came long way in 3 millenium
2006-09-02 23:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I wish I had longer hair, or a certain body tupe, but then I say, the Lord said "I am fearfully and wonderfully made", be happy with what you are. You are beautiful because no one can be you.
2006-09-02 23:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not true i'm a black girl and any type of race of guys like me because i don't care about what i look like and i'm confident in myself and you need to be too and your not black your brown i love who i am and you should love who you are too that's sad your ashamed of being black no one will accept you if you don't know how to accept yourself
2006-09-02 23:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ashli L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waaaaaa.....you have no choice but to play the hand you were dealt...find self worth in something beside your looks. Become a doctor, astronaut or president.
2006-09-02 22:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by the_knower_of_all_knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you was self confident. THere's NOTHING wrong with who you are. You are not black, you're brown or dark tan or ebony...anything that makes you better than who you think you are. Whatever your problem it has nothing to do with your external features, but your internal self worth. You are worth far more than you think, million dollar...baby!
2006-09-02 22:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by William K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? just becuz you r ugly don't blame ur own race.You switch to white or hispanic you'll still be ugly.Some ppl r just like that and others won't judge you on color.
2006-09-03 00:12:21 · answer #11 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋