I stopped taking the pill for a while, doctors orders. I told him to start useing a condom. But he doesn't. He says he forgets to put one on, I should remind him. But in the heat of the moment. Who's thinking clearly? Why he is spilling seed if he don't want kids?
2006-09-02 15:52:31 · 11 answers · asked by Lulu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why are you having sex and running the risk of getting pregnant then. If you know he doesn't want kids and you end up getting pregnant, he might feel "trapped". I know it can be hard in the heat of the moment but you have to be in control enough to say stop before things get really complicated.
2006-09-02 15:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by wunluv06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU REALLY NEED TO ASK WHAT TO DO, IF HE DO NOT WANT TO USE A CONDOM YOU SHOULD ASK HIM IF YOU ENDED UP WITH CHILD WILL HE MARRY YOU? I KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT QUESTION HELL NO. BECAUSE HE DON'T GIVE A DAME ABOUT YOU, ARE YOU THAT HARD UP FOR HIM ? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, YOU MUST BE 10 YEARS OLD, NO 5 YEARS OLD BECAUSE A TEN YEAR OLD WOULD KNOW THIS PERSON JUST WANT TO GET HIS AT ANY EXPENSE. GIRLFRIEND YOU BETTER OPEN YOUR EYES AND GET YOU SOMEBODY WHO CARES ABOUT YOU. HOMEBOY IS NOT GOING TO STAND BY YOU IF YOU BECOME WITH CHILD. HE IS GOING TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PERSON. HE DO NOT FORGET TO PUT IT ON UNLESS HE IS HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE HE DO NOT HAVE TO USE THEM WITH. LET HOME BOY GO BEFORE HE LEAVES YOU WITH A MOUTH TO FEED. I KNOW YOU ARE NOT HEARING ME BUT WHEN YOU END UP WITH SOMETHING IN THE OVEN , I KNOW YOU WILL THINK ABOUT THIS ADVICE.
BLUE
2006-09-02 16:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's something you need to ask him. Make it clear that you are no longer on the pill and it's better to be safe then sorry..before you guys "get started" have one right there and ready, it can't be that hard to remember..
2006-09-02 15:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So stop sleeping with him. Obviously both of you are nuts. If you don't want kids... remembering a condom should not be that difficult.
2006-09-02 15:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by mrslang1976 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your in the heat of it next time, think about this. Raising a baby by yourself. (The labor pains, getting up three or four times a night, not getting to go out anymore, trying to pay bills and a babysitter.) DUH!!!!!!! What do you think?
2006-09-02 16:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use a diaphram ,get one fitted from the dr.
2006-09-02 15:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better stop sleeping with him till he uses condom. (:
2006-09-02 16:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your new bundle of joy
2006-09-02 15:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by dwh320 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit sleeping with him.
2006-09-02 15:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off you are only hurting yourself because you get pregnant he will run.
2006-09-02 15:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋