I'm w/ someone right now.. and well.. this person has done things to really hurt me..stupid things. I really felt i loved this person and well it seems as if that person took advantage of my blindness.. now I'm not sure of what I feel..i've been w/ this person for 2 yrs now...live w/ the person to..what do you think?
2006-09-02 15:41:33 · 9 answers · asked by Become a better person 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are having doubts for a reason.
Take some time to be away from them, maybe a month or two and see if you "really" miss them.
Then make a decision whether to work it out or not.
2006-09-02 15:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your partner! talk about what has hurt you and see if they're sincere and sorry about it. i guess it might depend on what they did specifically.
also, love isn't a feeling. it's an action. just because you don't "feel" in love, doesn't mean you've fallen out of love. that's not even really the point here. do you feel like you don't love this person because of what they've done to you?
in the end, the question is not whether you love them or not, but whether that person is willing to change and not hurt you anymore and THEN you figure out whether you have feelings for him/her
2006-09-02 15:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really what you should ask yourself is, is my love and happiness worth giving to this guy if all he gives back is hurt? no person who loves someone should risk giving up who they are and their self worth because they are possibly scared of change and the unknown. you may just be staying with this person mainly because its a safe place and you like the comfort of the known. look deep inside yourself and if you can see yourself living without this person, seriously consider moving on.
2006-09-02 15:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by Richard and Kristi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are taking advantage of you get out. It will be hard but your partner and you should help each other, not use each other. You might be in love but i don't think they are.
2006-09-02 15:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's perfect!
You either love them for all their faults or you don't!
Like the song goes,
Listen to your heart!!!
2006-09-02 15:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question it, it ain't love sweetheart. Pick your life back up and move on.
2006-09-02 15:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are questioning your love, then it isn't there anymore.
2006-09-02 15:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, he doesn't love you.
2006-09-03 06:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the spark is still there. so it speaks alone
2006-09-02 15:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by carendawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋