my friend said she may send a letter to the guy i like saying its from me. i think it'll look stupid, how do i prevent it from happening? should i e-mail him and tell him it isn't me? she said she doesn't know if she'll do it for sure.. but she will do it randomly without me knowing! help please..
2006-09-02 15:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you're friend should know that you don't want her to. the fact that you'll never know if she did it or not kind of sux but you can get to the boy in advance, maybe let him know what your "friend" (if that's what you wanna call it) is planning on doing so that way you can rest easy knwoing that even if she tried to pull it off, he knows its not you so alls good!
2006-09-02 15:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by jgmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a friend. They make think that is a good idea but unless you know EXACTLY what it says then it WILL backfire on BOTH of you. Then he will never trust either of you again. If she does send it and you find out then you should deny sending it and be honest. You never know it may just work out for the best.
2006-09-02 22:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by dnycndy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok look, obviously your friend is trying to help (unless it's in a threatning way) your friend obviously has NO respect for you. Tell her that if she does it, that it won't only embaress you, but it will just prove how much she DOESN'T respect you. If you and the guy you like are meant to be, then it will happen naturally. If you push if you'll look bad. When you're ready to tell him, then you'll know. Don't second guess yourself.
2006-09-02 22:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately tell him ahead of time that this girl is saying she is going to send a letter pretending to be you. You don't have to explain any further than the fact that you do not want him to think it is you pestering him.
2006-09-02 22:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the guy know about it first. If you write him a letter he will be able to see hand writing difference between the 2 of you
2006-09-02 22:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by kayemethan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk to her,and be real with her.tell her that you do not want her to send that letter to him,If she doesnt respect that then tell her that you can no longer be her friend.Give her a scenario if it were her in it...ask her how she would feel.If worst comes to worst and she does it,email him apologizing for your friend's immature behavior.And drop her.I know it hurts,but you cant surround yourself with ppl like that.
2006-09-02 22:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by vre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a friend? Tell her that is illegal to use someone else's identity and you will report her to the postal authorities. Drop her. She's no friend.
2006-09-02 22:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really your friend she would tell you when she does it or there will be all kinds of chaos including all three of you!
2006-09-02 22:23:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if anything comes up about it then e-mail him and tell him it was ur friend although he might not believe u.
2006-09-02 22:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just tell him first a get this off your chest. Then it will be over with and you will feel better.
2006-09-02 22:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋