to talk to him a little bit before dating him again...just to trust him, should I just ask him....even if i wanted him to take the iniuitive this ONE TIME? What should I do, swallow my peidw when I'm so hurt?
2006-09-02 15:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey...
What you are talking about is not the love of your life .... love never cause pain.....
I guess you should give yourself a little while before you decide to get the whole experiment again in your life.....
Remmeber well that you are so wonderful person that can love and you deserve to be in true love .....
Dont rush things.... take your time......
What greater thing is there for two human souls that to feel that they are joined... to strengthen each other... to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.
~ George Eliot
wait for that
Good Luck
2006-09-02 15:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 04:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should turn and run as fast and as hard as you can. Dearie, things don't get better. They only get worst! The abuse WILL ACCELERATE! without a doubt if you go back with him you are setting yourself up for a long haul of hellish abuse. Ask yourself why you would even consider going back with him. Get counseling now! Fast. Run little girl run!
2006-09-02 15:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say take your time, don't rush into anything with this guy if you have had a painful past with him. You would just be setting yourself up for more pain. Be careful!!!
2006-09-02 15:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love of your life?Painful past?Swallow your pride?This is not love.Love doesnt cause this type of pain.How many painful times will it take before you get it?
2006-09-02 15:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold it right there.
Give it time. It sounds like you need a break, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Why not just NOT talk to him for a while? Say a month?
2006-09-02 15:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over.
Love doesn't hurt, and you still are.
It will always be there, with you wondering if it will happen
again.
Time to say goodbye, and move on.
2006-09-02 15:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "love of your life" is not someone with whom you have a "very painful past".
2006-09-02 15:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dezree,
It sounds like you're a bit desperate.
You can't find another bloke?
2006-09-02 15:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋