I miss my husband a lot. We hardly spend quality time together. I don't get the attention and affection from him like I used to.
I have a guy friend at work. He has a girl friend. We take lunches and breaks together. We talk everyday and enjoy each others company. We like eachother. I feel so happy when he's around. It has come to a point we can't stay without talking or seeing each other everyday. Even if one of us take off from work we miss each other. I think we're getting too attached. I don't know what to do. We're are attracted to eachother. We both agreed that if I was not married the situation would have been different. This has been the issue lately. Since I'm married I kind of feel guilty about the whole thing. But can't stay away from him. I tried I feel miserable if I don't see him. He keeps emailing that he misses me.
Is it alright to continue this friendship? Should I avoid him?
2006-09-02 15:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by F D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU ARE SO WRONG ,THIS GUY DON'T CARE ANYTHING ABOUT YOU HE KNOWS YOU ARE THE NEEDY WIFE WHICH IS SAD AND HE IS GOING TO LAY YOU AND AFTER A WHILE HE WILL NOT HAVE TIME FOR YOU. IS HE GOING TO GIVE UP HIS GIRLFRIEND? NO. I BET HE WOULD HAVE A FIT IF HIS GIRLFRIEND WAS GOING OUT ON HIM. IS YOUR HUSBAND CHEATING ON YOU, YOU KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT HE IS NOT. WHEN YOU SEE THIS GUY YOU SHOULD TAKE OFF RUNNING THE OTHER WAY. THIS IS THE QUESTION YOU SHOULD BE ASKING YOURSELF, IS THIS GUY WORTH YOUR MARRIAGE? HELL NO !! WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO YOUR HUSBAND. IF YOU WANT TO LAY UP WITH SOME OTHER THAN YOUR HUSBAND YOU SHOULD BE A WOMAN ABOUT IT GET OUT OF THE MARRIAGE. I KNOW YOU ARE WEAK AND YOU ARE GOING TO BE A FOOL AND SLEEP WITH THIS NO GOOD GUY, YES I SAID NO GOOD. IF HE TAKES ANOTHER MANS WIFE TO BED HE IS NO GOOD AND YOU ARE ALSO. PLEASE DON'T DO IT, YOU WILL GO TO HELL FOR IT.
2006-09-02 15:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by BLUE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If yuo love your hubby end it or you are bound for trouble. The guy knows you are married and emails you with little notes like that his next move is closer to your pants.
He's trying to get closer to you and convience you it's you who is making the moves.
He may really care for you . so if you love your husband you have a choice ot make. We all work long hours sooner or later and run into the same problem your husband has. personally I would talk with the husband and tell him how you miss him and his time with you is important.
If you stay withthe friend something is goingto happen that could effect all three of you..
If you ignore him a while he will either get the message or may find other things about him you did not know. such as his reactions to your choice.
2006-09-02 22:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is called emotional betrayal. It isn't good for you, it is making you sick with worry...look after yourself sweet pea...try to make some changes that you can live with...
Did you know that most of the time couples counselling is to help people move towards a healthy divorce?
Remember...I said changes you can live with.
If it is an affair you want, then have it and let the fire burn or burn itself out, If it is a marriage you want then break off the friendship...if it is a divorce you want then get one...your friend might not have the same interest in you if you are not verboten but you should know the right thing to do ...it is your life...
2006-09-02 22:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by partout250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop this relationship with your friend. How would you feel if it were your husband doing this? I'm sure you wouldn't like it. I know how you feel but you are opening a can of worms. There will be a point of no return. I hate to see this happen to you. We can get so caught up in the excitement of it all but you have to ask yourself, is it worth it? I hope you make the right decision. Good luck.
2006-09-02 22:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your husband isnt giving u the attention so u have ot get it from somewhere. sike nah talk it over with your husband tell him how u feel tell him how u need some attention
2006-09-02 22:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not healthy unless your husband knows about it. I think you will end up doing something you might regret later on...
2006-09-02 22:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...who do u love more? do u love this guy that goes 2 ur work? or do u love ur husband?
if you love this guy...well...i'm not very sure
if u love ur husband more...have a kid..u'll never b bored after that! :-)
2006-09-02 22:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Catchr4Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lady, he is hitting on u,if u keep seeking him, your gonna cheat,i would stop were i am now,but if your marriage is really bad or just wanna get enough go for it.
2006-09-02 22:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try reading or volunteering to occuy your time??? It might just work!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-09-02 22:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like ur going to end up cheating on him.
2006-09-02 22:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋