I want to be wild and sexy in the bedroom for my husband what turns a man on? Please don't get out of hand and be sarcastic be genuine!
2006-09-02 14:36:04 · 25 answers · asked by Cookie48 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
since your married the sky is the limit as long as its between you and him only. but if you have a tv in the rrom and own or can rent or borrow a video cam plug it into the tv (((( do not use a video tape, dont record)))))) just for viewing only as men love to see them selves if thats not possible or in additon use as man mirrors as you can and light candles as they give off a great glow on the skin (every one looks better under candle light) and again he can see himself, we are vain and i know it sounds silly. from experience silk sheets suck so dont think that will be any fun for him the falling off the bed hurts. anything else you do adds some level of fun. your married have fun especially in that room... have a great one end enjoy i hope it helps some....
2006-09-02 14:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just asked my husband and he said, he likes alot of kissing which we do and he likes his genitals, touched, played with and licked, which I do. We are not what you would consider wild, except we do vocalize our fantasies which can be wild ones, these are a huge turn on for us both. I think that lingerie is always sexy, especially if you perform a strip tease for your husband while wearing it, my husband loves this. Good Luck, and Have Fun!!
2006-09-02 14:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Annie Red Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a shower, then put lotion all over, then wear perfume. Get some Victoria Secret negligee with black in color. Talk softly to your husband. Ask him to massages your shoulder first, then your back. You should talk flirty when you ask him. Make sure that he can smell your perfume when he massage you. Get close to him and kinda touch his thigh near his ......Massages slowly his thigh back and forth almost touching his organ. Tease him, like you almost touch him there but not. The element of seduction and teasing is the most important things. Let him touch you a little bit, then play hard to get at first while you're talking to him seductively. Good luck cause he will rock your world until you pass out.
2006-09-02 15:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by SNOWMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have individualized opinions on that....including your husband. He must have made it known by now some of his fantasies, or what turns him on, or what type of womanly-sexy image gets his attention. That's what you should concentrate on and try to enhance for the special moment.
Any other opinions offered here are things that may not apply to the interests of your husband.
Your husband is the best source for this answer.
2006-09-02 15:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend came in to work one day with this grin on his face it wouldn't go away so about 4 o'clock i had to ask what the hell was the smile for and he has been married for 14 yrs he told me that he got home last nigth and there was no ligth at the house but as he entered candles were lit along with rose pedals all the way to the bedroom and a note on the door that said no clothes allowed then she stripped for him i didn't ask for no details but what ever happen he had a smile for days
2006-09-02 21:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by maike j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a true answer? Well here it is. FIND OUT THE THINGS YOUR husband likes. The real thing is not what turns me on but what turns on your husband? Does he like oral sex for example? Would he permit you to tie him up? What if he wants anal sex(very controversial but practiced). What if he wants a threesome Would you be game? What if he like s sex in the bush? the car? outside at night? in the water? behind a bar one night?
2006-09-02 14:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's lots of stuff that turns men on...why not ask him? Or, give him a choice of 4-5 things and see what happens...
2006-09-02 14:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Answers1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea, ask your HUSBAND what turns him on. Each man is different.
2006-09-02 14:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not a man but im a women but i had to answer this question ask him what he likes like in a conversation at dinner take notes and then when u go to bed break him off
2006-09-02 14:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by 2 THICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lingerie,candles, low light or equivalent, massage with oils. Initiate dont be afraid to start things. Seduce him like you would have before you were married. If he is tired when he gets home from work make sure he has a chance to relax, and make him feel welcome.
2006-09-02 18:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋