when he gets mad he says he regrets the day he met me with my daughter, he calls me fat and stupid. does he really loves me?
2006-09-02 14:34:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know...put up his email or phone number and we'll ask him for you.
2006-09-02 14:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by sparkleandme4yrs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he has a serious problem with the concept of love and lives "in the moment." When he tells you he loves you, he probably believes it in the moment. When he says he regrets the day he met you, he probably means it in the moment as well. He sounds like he runs hot and cold and I would bet that he's also somewhat impulsive and insensitive. Be careful, your husband may have the potential of being abusive with more than just his mouth.
2006-09-02 21:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This response is from a male gringo who has lived in Latin America for many years and has a Latina spouse who he loves very much.
Your husband might well love you, but he is mired in his machismo heritage. At times, he is probably frustrated with a sense of failure in his perception of himself and his verbal abuse of you is a stupid macho response. (If the abuse is physical, GET OUT!)
If your husband is under thirty or going through a mid-life crisis, then he may get over this problem - WHICH IS HIS, NOT YOURS. Your problem is the need to be loved, and the question is not whether your husband loves you, but what price are you willing to pay for it.
Mochica
2006-09-04 23:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I can tell u that he has no respect for u if he says that. I know people can say things when they're mad but to call u names and such is just disrespectful.
2006-09-02 21:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anybody that can treat their spouse with such disrepect and verbal abuse is controlling, and not worth hanging on to.
You should get out now before it goes any further!
2006-09-02 22:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope sorry, i am a firm believer that if u really love someone even when ur angry that u dont say things u cant take back, when u love someone u dont go out of ur way to hurt them not even when ur angry..
2006-09-02 21:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as it may hurt to hear......NO, he doesn't love you. Anyone who says things to hurt another person purposely has no room for love in their hearts. The abuse is emotional and mental, you need to stop it now....you don't want it to become a physical battle also.
2006-09-02 21:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he loves you but he is being verbally and emotionally abusive. You can't control what he says but you can let him know in no uncertain terms he may not speak to you that way.
2006-09-02 21:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by yogangel7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he says he loves you and we are not able to either prove or disprove that. One thing I would like to say is this: Do not take seriously things he said when is vexed or angry.He May just be trying to get back at you and is then truly sorry
2006-09-02 21:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is saying these things out of anger. Not to be disrespectful but I bet the sex is the bomb isn't it. But is it worth it honey. Find happiness.
2006-09-02 21:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So. Do you believe a mad guy, or a calm guy? By the way, what happened to make him so mad?
2006-09-02 21:37:23 · answer #11 · answered by Answers1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋