He is Virgo, She is Aries. Will this last?

Answer 1

yup!

When Aries and Virgo come together, they may at first think they have nothing in common and not much to learn from each other. This is a relationship that takes time to develop, and each partner must learn to understand where the other is coming from. In many ways, Aries and Virgo are opposites: Aries is brash, dominant, and aggressive, always jumping into new things, usually impatient. Virgo is detail oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward goals. Because of their many differences, Aries and Virgo can learn a great deal from each other once they look beyond the surface.
Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing in each other but their faults. Aries may seem too brash, and Virgo may seem fussy. But once they stop learning about each others' faults and begin focusing on their strengths, they'll discover a great deal. Aries teaches Virgo about fun and excitement, about the spontaneity that is often missing in Virgo's life. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail, the knowledge that the little things are important too. Aries may feel Virgo is overcritical, but they will teach their partner to take things less seriously. Virgo may accuse Aries of being ill-mannered and impulsive, but can teach them to be polite and value hard work.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars, and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. The soldiers of Mars want to rush out and fight, without preplanning or strategizing. Conversely, Virgo wants to analyze everything and work out all the details before committing to action. Both Signs need to take the time to see the value of their partner's approach; Aries can teach Virgo to be less critical and more spontaneous, at the same time gaining stability from Virgo's even keel.

Aries is a Fire Sign, and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Aries begins a new project based on whim and interest, while Virgo is more analytical. Virgo will weigh all options before devoting their serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in! Although these partners may find it difficult to walk in their partner's shoes, when they work together they make an excellent business team and an efficient couple based on their differing approaches.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign, and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. Virgo doesn't need to be the leader or the boss; when they are given a viable suggestion and see a role for them self in it, they are glad to follow the suggestion. Aries, on the other hand, is the one who makes the suggestion in the first place and assigns roles to the other participants. Their lack of conflict over roles helps Aries and Virgo work on the same project with great success.

The best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship is their great effectiveness as a team -- business or personal. Metaphorically as well as literally, Aries gets attention and respect by being out in the field doing sales and marketing, while Virgo works hard behind the scenes, balancing the books and following up on details that no longer interest Aries. Their personalities, opposite in so many ways, make for a highly complementary relationship.

Answer 2

When Aries and Virgo come together in a love match, they may think at first that they have nothing in common and nothing to learn from one another. This relationship takes time to develop as each partner must learn to understand where the other is coming from. Aries and Virgo can seem like total opposites: While Aries is brash, dominant and aggressive, always jumping into new things and almost always impatient, Virgo is detail-oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward long-term goals. Aries's energy is fiery and impetuous while Virgo's is much slower and more grounded. It's these very differences, however, that can teach Aries and Virgo so much, once they just look beneath one another's surfaces to see what lies beneath. Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing but one another's faults. Virgo thinks Aries is way too brash, and Aries thinks Virgo is extremely fussy. But if they focus on one another's strengths instead, they'll discover a great deal. Aries teaches Virgo about fun and excitement, about the spontaneity that is often missing in Virgo's life. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail, the knowledge that the little things--and moments--are important too. Aries can teach their Virgo lover to take things less seriously. Virgo can teach Aries to be polite and value hard work. Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. Aries wants to rush out and fight without wasting time preplanning or strategizing. Conversely, Virgo wants to analyze everything and work out all the details before acting. These are such opposite approaches that strife can result. Both Signs must make a conscious effort to learn from one another's method rather than letting their partner's natural rhythm bother to the point of distraction. Aries is a Fire Sign and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Where Aries is all fiery impetuosity, Virgo is grounded practicality. Virgo weighs all the options before devoting any serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in! This is true both in career and in personal relationships--which can be something of a stumbling block. If Aries has decided it's Virgo they want, they might be frustrated for some time to come, waiting for Virgo to make up their mind about whether the relationship is a good idea. Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. Virgo doesn't need to be the leader or the boss; they're glad to follow another's suggestion once they decide it's a viable one. Aries, on the other hand, wants to make those suggestions--every time. This is a beneficial dynamic if these two Signs are working as a team toward a common goal. What's the best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship? Their great effectiveness as a team--business or personal. Their personalities, opposite in so many ways, make for a highly complementary relationship.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Time is the key word with an Aries/Virgo crush because it will take plenty of it to really find out if romance will work. These two signs appear to have nothing in common – at first. But with a little bit of time and a lot of communicating, when they do find things to share, it can be quite exciting! If these two signs can scratch the surface and dig a bit deeper they just may find a rewarding relationship!

Answer 4

Sure it will, if they are truly in love, yes it will last. The signs of the sun mean nothing.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

crash and burn
game over you lose

Answer 7

Virgo with Aries

There is an on-again, off-again quality to this combination. It can blow hot and cold and change like the weather, because it is an attraction of two very different creatures. Aries' enthusiasm, courage, and impulsiveness are fascinating but sometimes offputting to self- contained, controlled Virgo.

On the other hand, Virgo's self-sufficiency, subtlety, and careful commitment to excellence are fascinating but sometimes irritating to restless Aries. Virgo is earthy and warmed by Aries' fiery confidence in the future, while Aries can learn respect for time, order, and limits through Virgo's common-sense realism and patience.

Beware of polarising, because, on a bad day, your differences can push you into extremes and generate quarrels. Aries can feel stifled and depressed by Virgo's critical and over- cautious attitude. And Virgo can feel stressed out and bullied by Aries' impatience and imperviousness to worldly and emotional limits.

Respect each other's strengths and listen to each other without trying to change each other. You each need what the other has to offer in order to make bright dreams real and an exciting future viable in the mundane world.

You are a Virgo


That ubiquitous newspaper portrait of the tidy Virgo soul with a perfectly balanced bank account and an immaculate bathroom no doubt sends you into fits of cynical laughter. Virgos are generally sadly misinterpreted, and understandably you can get pretty irritated about it, especially if you're the sort of Virgo who is untidy, chaotic and not in the least concerned about whether you arrive at one minute before eight or one minute after.

Discrimination is a Virgo characteristic. So is subtlety of thinking. Black and white perceptions imply a simple universe, and to you the universe is rarely simple. It's more like a huge, boundless jigsaw puzzle, and it can drive you crazy if you're missing a piece or if there isn't a picture on the top of the box showing you how the puzzle should look when it's finished.

But perfectionism - something of which you are often accused - isn't the same as discrimination. To be a perfectionist you have to be idealistic, and Virgo is probably the most realistic sign of the zodiac. You harbour no impossible vision of a perfect utopian world, or even a perfect utopian bathroom. You know your strengths and weaknesses, and you don't indulge in either arrogance or false modesty. You use what comes to hand to create order in your world, and order is at the top of your list of priorities - whether it's order in the material environment, in the realm of ideas, or in mind and body.

Virgos are the great synthesisers of the zodiac. Both your problems and your gifts spring from this deep urge to bring things together, to connect knowledge and experience to form a comprehensible whole. With Mercury, god of intelligence and communication, ruling this sign, naturally you love acquiring knowledge, especially if it's useful. And "useful", like "order", is another important word for Virgo. If something can't be used, you'll discard it with a ruthlessness that can terrify more sentimental signs. Sometimes Virgos throw out romance because it isn't useful.

You're capable of being quite cynical, and you know perfectly well that one has to be clever to survive. If you're going to do something, you'll do it well, from both pride of craftsmanship and a good marketing sense. Idealistic perfection? Hardly. Yet despite this apparent toughness, the impulse to be of service runs strong in you.

Virgos need to feel needed and useful. There's not a lot of ambition in this sign, and your tendency to look for more and more pieces to complete the great jigsaw puzzle of life takes away any propensity for the kind of obsessiveness needed to claw your way ambitiously to the top of the heap. You'd make an excellent advisor or counsellor to those silly enough to have grabbed the throne and subjected themselves to all that trouble. Your work is the thing you let people know first about you, not your secret self. With Virgos, not all the goods are visible in the shop window.

You don't like showing your hand until you know where you stand. You're a student and observer of life rather than a gambler or an entrepreneur. With all that self-containment, naturally the emotional realm can be the trickiest piece of the puzzle. Emotions aren't orderly, and they make you feel vulnerable. All those rituals you love so much are a means of keeping the "dark forces" of your own powerful feelings at bay. Deep within you there's a huge reservoir of sensitivity, romanticism and imaginative vision. Show it? Never. Your apparent coolness and insistence on privacy are a way of protecting yourself against an intolerable sensitivity. All that emphasis on practical reality helps you escape the mystic in your own soul.

You can be detached and even brusque in manner, and no one will ever catch you offering your last pennies to a drunk on the street. More likely you'll deliver a stern lecture about self-help. But this is because you're too acutely, compassionately aware of the human flotsam of life.

Planning for the future can be an obsession with you, because your realism makes it hard for you to trust in life. Yet when you feel secure, you can be the kindest, most gentle and generous of souls, giving freely of your time and skills. You're a complex creature, with many masks and disguises. You've learned your lessons early. But then, it's only realistic.

The Aries partner


The joy of love, for the Aries partner, lies in the excitement of the chase. That means you can't ever let yourself become boringly predictable. Sensible and steady, yes; repetitive and narrow in your thinking and your vision, no. It's often a good idea to be a little reluctant in the face of an Aries' furious romantic declarations. You have to know how to play the game. And in a way, love is a game for the Aries partner. Not that it isn't serious, but it needs to be an adventure, a challenge, a constant exploration of new possibilities.

Aries people need to have a goal. Without the goal, life is meaningless. The goal can be long-term or short-term (short-term is usually best, since this sign isn't endowed with vast quantities of patience), but there must be a shining vision at the end of the chase. The Aries partner needs a quest, and is constitutionally incapable of settling into chronic domesticity without the feeling that there's a new challenge just around the corner. If you want someone who'll always be available to clip the hedges and have Christmas dinner with your parents, year after year, decade after decade, choose another sign.

For Aries, life is a constant struggle to generate new ideas which will improve the world. However impatient, irascible and insensitive they are, Aries people need to feel that they can create new opportunities for change. That's why it's not a good idea for you to be too sensible too much of the time. Admittedly, living with an Aries partner can be stressful if you're the type who likes unchanging security and an immovable status quo.

There's more than a little of the gambler in Aries, whether it's with money, emotions or ideas. Some Aries people love fast cars and dangerous sports. Many Ariens are so infuriatingly energetic that you get exhausted just watching them. They rush about with eighteen irons in the fire, all heating, as though they take some kind of invisible pill which makes it unnecessary to eat, sleep, rest or contemplate. They're usually in a hurry, pushing you along until you're breathless, even when there seems no reason to be that urgent.

When they want something, Ariens aren't subtle (unless you've found one of those frightened Ariens who lost the fighting spirit in childhood). No emotional blackmail or strategic planning or diplomatic statesmanship. Just a simple "Do it!" If you don't, you're liable to get a tantrum - a slammed door and an evening of frosty silence, or a verbal harangue, or a few smashed plates.

Ariens can be querulous, irritable and bad-tempered. When they're fired up about something, nothing else seems as right, as true, as self-evident. They simply don't notice that you have your own opinions, unless you shout at them. And they're often genuinely hurt if you think they're being selfish or egocentric. In fact, the Aries partner is no more selfish than anyone else, and frequently less so. She is just more honest about it. She can be warm, supportive and generous, and will usually believe the best about people until unpleasantly surprised. Meanness and spite bewilder and wound her, so don't unleash it.

Learn to be as direct, open and honourable as your Aries, and you'll fare much better. One way or another, you'll never be bored. Even repressed, insecure Rams aren't boring; their neuroses are always interesting, if taxing. If you want a stolid, placid mate, stay away from Aries. Her path in life isn't about contentment. It's about challenge, change and the pursuit of the great dream. Why not join in?
The Aries woman


The Aries woman needs a crusade. She craves challenge, a cause to follow, a goal to reach, and constant new projects which excite and inspire her. She needs to know she's doing something to promote change and progress, on however small a level.

Aries women are natural executives and leaders, because their strength, courage, directness, conviction and originality give them both personal charisma and authority. They are action people, mentally, physically or both. You can't expect them to sit quietly at work taking abuse from the boss (there can only be one boss in Aries' world, and guess who that is), or standing over the oven waiting for the bread to bake.

It isn't easy to be an Aries woman in a conventional world of stereotyped sexual roles. The attitudes which prevailed a century ago haven't changed all that much yet, whatever you might think. The world is only just beginning to accommodate the clear fire of the Aries woman, and it was probably mainly Aries women who protested loudly and persistently enough to get the laws changed which now allow greater opportunities for women to express their creative power in the outer world.

This woman is not pliable, submissive or patiently forgiving. She won't smile sweetly when you behave insufferably. She is more likely to debate, argue, shout, throw a tantrum, storm out of the house, start an affair on the side just to punish you (and they'll make sure you know about it, too), or put her own career first.

She isn't going to give you constant cosseting and fussing, so don't expect to have your every need telepathically understood. If you've found a pliable, sweet-tempered Aries, watch out: she's repressed all that fire and one day it will burst out and burn you both. Ruled by Mars, her creative energy needs lots of different arenas, including the cut-and- thrust of the outer world.

Even if she's married, the Aries woman prefers playing the mistress to playing the wife. That's because she needs romance and challenge in her relationships. She can be ferociously independent, and that can attract her to a partner she can dominate. And then, of course, she'll get bored. She's liable to see you not only as a challenge, but as a fellow contestant. A lot of the time she really can do things better and faster than you can, and her natural wilfulness can be pretty bruising if you've got a fragile ego.

She may also try to change you. If she hasn't got a cause to fight for, she may make you her cause, and start remodelling your clothes, your hairstyle, your ideas, your choice of friends, your goals and your beliefs. For heaven's sake, fight back! Don't try to pacify her by agreeing or negotiating. And just ignoring her and going your own way won't work either.

The Aries woman needs a good clean fight to clear the air and get her perspective back, and she respects an honest opponent who can meet her own honesty directly. Fighting is often her way of generating some heat in a relationship, too, if the passion has begun to wane. But don't play power games or employ manipulative tactics. She can't cope with sly inferences, dark undercurrents and subtle emotional pressures. She's defenceless against the veiled barb, and you'll undermine her confidence and crush her dreams if you try to control her with constant criticism, carping and denigration.

This woman is noble in spirit, and deserves nobility in return. She can be challenging to live with, but she's capable of tremendous heartfelt commitment and loyalty. She'll fight for those she loves, devote herself to them, work for them, believe in them, and inspire them. If you have an eggshell ego or a power problem, stay away from the Aries woman. But then you'd be missing an exciting, invigourating, generous, fiery spirit who merits not just affection but the deepest respect.