Well, I was just wondering what you guys think. I know I was and still am in love. It hurts so bad. I think it would have been better to have never loved at all. Also, how long does it take to get over this feeling? I don't know if it will ever go away!!!
2006-09-02 14:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by day dreamin baby 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
after a break up i think everyone thinks its better to never have but once you get over the hurt and remember all the good times you realize its so much better to love and lose than never love at all
2006-09-02 14:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do know one thing, if you have the capability to love someone that much then you will again. Until you love someone again (the one who is The Right One) you may not know whether that past love was worth it or not or whether you learned anything from the experience. As far as how long it will take you to get over the feeling, that depends on a lot of factors: your age, how long you were together, how close you were, the reason for the break-up...but either way, time heals. It really does. I've been in love (really in love) twice before I met my husband. And the difference with my husband is that I never ever doubted how he felt about me. The past loves I had, pale in comparison. You'll get that too.
2006-09-02 21:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, I loved and was broken more than ever before. It took me a few months to get over it, but now I can see clearly that he is a total loser. I am glad that I loved, and would have prefered to never love at all, even though I was hurt. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
2006-09-02 21:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby [xXx] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to not have experienced love at all. I would rather experience joy and peace than love. Love hurts when it is yanked from under feet. It does take a good while to get over someone, it took me a year.
2006-09-02 21:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sucks right after a break up, but I guess it depends on much of a connection you had to the person to determine how long it'll take to go away.
2006-09-02 21:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by zooba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but when you're 60, and you never have even been there, imagine the emptiness that lasts for the next 20 or so years, and continues right up to your last breath.
2006-09-02 21:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have never loved at all is NOT commendable, it leaves one closed and shut-off - a whole dimension of the self will not have been developed. . To have loved and lost, is painful - but it opens and awakens your true self, and develops that dimension that would otherwise have atrophied.
2006-09-02 21:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I've had my heart broken before, i still say its better to have loved than not to have loved at all.
2006-09-02 21:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe it better , I know that in time it will pass and that its hard, but you experiecne something new and wonderful with each new Love and Loss, hope that helps
2006-09-02 21:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Israel G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! Break ups are hard, but they can, also, be learning experiences to help us in future relationships.
2006-09-03 08:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by confused123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋