And that was the first boyfriend u ever liked and connected with as a brother? PLZ ANSWER BOYZ AND GIRLZ.
2006-09-02 14:10:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She also cheated on him before and had sex with him twice and is already talking about marriage with this other guy.And the boyfriend shes cheating or the 1 i'm talking about lives in the big island so they never really get to see each other except wen he flys down.
2006-09-02 14:23:50 · update #1
you would tell your friend to cut it out, or break up with him... and if they dont... tell your friends boyfriend.
2006-09-02 14:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by jackie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard situation. I have been in it and there is no happy solution. Personally, and this is from experience, I think you should tell him. But this can go either badly or worse. He might not believe you, might think you were just jealous, and he might believe you, talk to his girl and they break up or fight and you get involved and she wants to kick your ***. Most of the time I would say stay out of it but if he is your 'brother' then it is your responsibility to have him peep game. Tell him you mean well and you just thought he should know and specifically tell him you will stay out of his business but you just thought he should know. Good luck.
2006-09-02 21:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question seperates friends from people you hang out with. I told someone who I thought was a good friend that another woman was approaching her husband. Because he was responding to the advances, he told his wife that it was actually me that was trying to be with him. It caused her to stop speaking to me. I feel if she was a true friend she would have known better but I did respect the fact that her loyalty fell with her husband (the dog that he is). It was his way of being able to cheat and get away with it if he isolated her from real women/friend.
Men. If you have a real woman, I dont suggest this tactic.
2006-09-02 21:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by angel739902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first of all learn the proper usage of you, your, you're. Then I might be in a position to effectively communicate with others on a serious matter with such close and interpersonal ramifications.
Secondly, aside from what my relationships was with anyone involved, I would ask myself long and hard if it were really any of my business.
2006-09-02 21:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by scubadiver50704 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that its not right for her to do because how would she feel if he cheated on her. She needs to be honest with him because if she doesn't do it now then their whole relationship is null due to the fact that relationships are based on truth and honesty. Talk to her because even if she doesn't do it now, he will eventually hear about it and he'll probably be more pissed at you or at her for not telling him sooner. He could feel like totally dumb for wasting his time on her. Best advice... talk to her and let her tell him what she did.... BEST OF LUCK
2006-09-02 21:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend, and say to her that it would be just fair if she broke up with the boyfriend. Why is she in a relationship if she want to cheat? Do not say anything to the boy, unles you are willing to lose your friend.
2006-09-02 21:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that since you found out by accident, it is only a matter of time until he finds out the same way. Tell her she should end it with him as nicely as possible and let him get on with his life. No one wants to find out that the person they love is really a slut that runs around on them.
2006-09-02 21:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by 8 In the corner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've made up your mind to tell her. All I can suggest is that you prepare yourself to have your friendship with both her and him end.
Plus, you don't seem to realize that when the relationship between the two of them ends, you won't be seeing the guy anymore. He's there for her, not you.
2006-09-02 21:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how wrong it is,and that if she doesn't appreciate her boyfriend 2 the point where she cheats,she should brake up and help both of them.Also,tell her that if he was cheating on her,she wud kick him,which means she deserves 2 kicked 2.Not really,but that it isnt fair,and not nice.Just explain that she is wrong.If she stops,she should tell him and appoligize.good luck
2006-09-02 21:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
If my friend was cheating on her boyfriend, I'd be like "do what you want, it's your relationship not mine."
But if her boyfriend was someone I was close to, I'd be like "You didn't hear this from me but so and so is cheating on you" or I'd leave him some concrete evidence if I could get some.
2006-09-02 21:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has 10 minutes to tell him (in her own words,) or you will.
It's tough, since they both mean a lot to you, but you would be as bad as her for not giving him the head's up. Let her handle it, but make her take responsibility for herself and tell him.
2006-09-02 21:13:32 · answer #11 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋