My wife and I have been married for six years and her twin sister, my sister-in-law, lives nearby, making it very convenient to see her often. My wife is the prettier, sweeter, and more intelligent of the two and I love my wife deeply. However, I am becoming sexually attracted to my sister-in-law and we are starting to flirt with each other- you know, things like long stares, closer hugs/kisses and touch. My Sister-in-law is sexy in a bitchy, Paris Hilton sort of way and she isn't someone that I would want a relationship with, other than sexual. Also, whenever my wife is out of town I spend my time with her sister and I always end up thinking at the end of the night how great it would be to have a passionate, sorted and dangerous affair with her.
I know it is wrong to be attracted to her, but we are going to have an affair and I would like to do so in a way that reduces the chances of catastrophic failure.
2006-09-02 14:09:36 · 12 answers · asked by AZLUV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just hand your wife your car keys, bank account and the deed to the house now, and save yourself some time. There is NO way something like this is not gonna get back to her, and if she does not throw your cheating butt out she's a complete idiot. You are not just asking for unmitigated disaster, you are groveling at it's feet begging for it.
2006-09-02 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by shreveport_master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you love your wife deeply but that's clearly a lie because if you cared about her at all you wouldn't even consider hurting her especially with a sister(who clearly is a backstabbing b*tch). You should protect your wife from people like these, not give her the heart ache to find out her husband has become her wrost enemy. Stop being so selfish and use your imagination to find another way to make your life more interesting and start focusing you energy into making yourself a better man and your wife a happier woman.
2006-09-02 21:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Belladonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to sleep with your wifes sister, than you need to leave your wife first. I cannot believe you are even entertaining this idea, you realize it will ruin your relationship with your wife as well as the relationship between her and her sister right? I would definitely think this through before acting because you are going to break your wife's heart and take away her own sister - brutal! If you ask me you should keep it in your pants and stay away from her sister!
2006-09-02 21:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by kristen c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, BONE YOUR WIFE!!!!! Believe me, if your wife really loves you then she will want to please you in everyway possible. Give her the opportunity to do so, and don't make it someone else's job. If you love your wife then don't even think about doing some other babe, especially since it's her twin sister (remember woman's intuition). Just think about once how you would feel if your wife was screwing your twin brother, and remember too, that even if she tried to hide it that you would know.
2006-09-02 22:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand FEELING attracted to someone you shouldn't have -- I'm in that position myself. But you sound like scum, because a person of integrity doesn't act on those illicit desires. If you love your wife deeply, you won't go through with this!! If you go through with it, it shows you love your own quickie pleasure more than you love your wife. THAT STINKS!!
I hope this is a fake story.
2006-09-02 21:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the best and you are still hungry for more, there is no free lunch in this world....pls don't get yourself into trouble, back off before your wife find out everything and hates the both of you.
2006-09-02 21:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by vosy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the attraction - but don't even think about it unless you are willing to lose the wife. All it takes for catastrophy is for her to tell your wife. She might do that if she's mad at you, or mad at her sister. You will lose control of the situation once you do the deed.
2006-09-03 00:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb move! That spells DIVORCE if you play with your wife's sister!! I would castrate my husband if he ever did something like that!!
2006-09-02 21:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your're doomed.
2006-09-02 21:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your self and everyone else a favor. keep it in your pants.
2006-09-02 21:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by larry l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋