i loved him. he was the coolest person i ever meet. on some days all i could think about was getting to see him or just to talk with him. i need some ideas on how i can get through this. I have already gotten a tatoo in memory of him.
2006-09-02 13:39:53 · 6 answers · asked by bacawk70 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It takes time to get used to it babe.....hes still with you, still watching over you. A friend of mine died in July quite unexpectedly....I still keep him in my top 8 on myspace......you never get used to it but it does get easier. My best friend sometimes goes to her parents grave to talk to them even though she knows they aren't there, being in that peaceful place, keeping it nice, always makes her feel better.
She smells her mom a lot too......does he leave you signs? Watch for them, the picture thats moved.....the item you left on the counter is moved to the table.....things like that.
2006-09-02 13:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worrys. Even though he isn't walking with you anymore... he is still in your soul. He is there with you no matter what. He doesn't want you to be sad. He want's you to enjoy your life. And when the time comes you can be with him once again. Now... remember everything happens for a reason. Even though passing away is never something you want to happen but it happens for a reason. It takes T-I-M-E to figure out how you can get used to him not being with you. But you will move on... but still be with him. Just remember words of wisdom. Things happen for a reason. Things happen for a reason.
2006-09-02 20:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had lots of ppl who were close to me die
it is the hrdest thing i think that anyone has to go through
some ppl will be unsure if talking to u about him will make you sad so they just hold their tongue.
i think that if you have another close friend, tell them it is okay to talk about him
that definately helps
and if yyou want, you can always talk to me
2006-09-02 20:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by all4chanel203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your loss. everyone grieves in their own way some people more time some less.no one can tell you how the only answer i can give you is time.maybe see a therapist. good luck
2006-09-02 20:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no that it is very hard for you. you will get somewhat over it. my cus. die almost 3 years ago but there is sometimes i remember him and i almost start to cry. so u will never get over it all the way
2006-09-02 20:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and wut is the question??
2006-09-02 20:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋