i want 2 know if i am still a virgin if i had sex but i did not bleed,please everyone help me
2006-09-02 13:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sorry dear, you are no longer concidered a virgin. And it has to be said if you didn't use protection - tell someone you trust and see a GYN to check for diseases.
If you feel confused and you've made a mistake about things. It's NOT the end of the world. Get your feelings together and write in a journal what your opinions are about sex. If you come to the conclusion sex isn't for you, decline next time until you're ready to have sex again.
Also there have been people that have made the mistake of having sex and regretting it, and they will start all over again, and by that I mean they will wait until they're married or at least a little older before having sex again - and re-claim their virginity.
I PROMISE it's not the end of the world and one of the best things I can advise you to do. Is to not go telling everyone you know about it - why? Suppose you trip and fall on your face, a good way to avoid the embarrassment is to not tell anyone. Because if you don't tell them - how will they know? The same is true here. If you tell everyone - not only will it spread like wild fire. People will develop opinions of you, and will make more things complicated.
I would keep this on the down low, if it's something you don't feel proud of.
2006-09-02 13:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this serious? No, you are not a virgin. You had sex. The end.
The only reason you would bleed is b/c you broke your hymen. Not everyone does, or does the first time.
2006-09-02 20:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by nic_tammyscott 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sexual intercourse so you are not a virgin anymore.
If you didn't bleed or feel any pain with the sex then their is a chance that your hymen may be intact. Technically when the hymn is broke that is the classic sign that you are no longer a virgin, but what about homosexual experiences? Now days your virginity is considered lost when you have sexual intercourse (oral sex is usually not counted).
2006-09-02 20:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a penis entered your vagina you are not a virgin anymore by anyone's standard. Not all women bleed. Heck, not sure most women bleed. I didn't.
If it was important to you to stay a virgin, you should have kept your pants on.
Oh..and just in case you have other misconceptions -
yes you can get pregnant the first time you have sex
no you don't need to have an orgasm to get pregnant
and yes, you can get pregnant even if he doesn't come inside you
2006-09-02 20:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lori A 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex, you are not a virgin. Whether or not you bleed doesn't matter--many women never do, and many girls accidentally break their hymen as children (a hard fall can do it).
2006-09-02 20:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u lose virginity if u had sex
2006-09-02 20:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by glad to help ^-^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you were penetrated, you aren't a virgin anymore. Bleeding has nothing to do with it.
2006-09-02 20:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a virgin... Sex = no longer a virgin...doesn't matter if you bled or not.
2006-09-02 20:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy_Fir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not a virgin. u had sex
2006-09-02 20:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still techneckley a virgin sweetie
2006-09-02 20:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋