K well I'm bi(obviously, I said that in the question) but anyway I need to tell my friends. I don't want to just come right out and say it, I want to sorta hint it I guess. What are things I could put on my myspace that would hint that I'm bi? Or anything else that can help, thanks.
2006-09-02 13:02:19 · 37 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Actually strange ball I'm not a noob, I have a lvl 2 acct too. I just don't want to ask a question like this on that acct. and I'm not a man and I don't need to see a doctor, there's nothing wrong with being bisexual or gay.
2006-09-02 13:07:04 · update #1
The way that I came out to my friends was that I put an announcment up on my Xanga saying, "Guess what? I'm bi!" Not all my friends know my Xanga sn, though, so for them, I just sort of kept it a bit quiet and let them ask me first. Since then, I've felt a lot better about myself and more open about being bi. Like, the other day, during band practice, my friend M (as I'll call her) was joking around about being "a bisexual pimp" to homecoming. She and the others there kinda laughed and looked at me, and M was like, "She doesn't count, she's already qualified!" It just sorta made me happy to know that M doesn't care, because I thought she'd be the first one to start saying stuff about me because of it.
Best of luck to your coming out!!!
2006-09-02 15:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by band_geek_til_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turds like bisexual broads. You have nothing to worry about. You friends are probably all bisexual anyway. I think they already know. You already have sex or made out with them. It's expected for a straight ho to be bisexual. That is how a girl grows mentally and intellectually. By switching over to women, girls become much smarter. Everyone will still think you're straight. You're lucky that you're a girl. If you were a guy, you would've been pounded to death while the word "f@g" was being yelled at you. It'll be okay. Just don't support same-sex marriage if you still want to be straight (that is, if you still want your friends to still think of you as a straight ho).
2006-09-02 14:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put pictures of sexy girls and guys on your my space that might get a hint out. Or when they see you dating a girl one time and a guy another could tell them or just when you are sitting around make comments about passerbys like oh i think he is a hottie and oh dont she have a cute bottom anything that will let them know. BUT as the some others said why tell them if they are your friends they will accept you how you are.. simple...
maybe this site will help
http://gaylife.about.com/od/comingout/
2006-09-02 13:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about saying something like ooh I was hit on by this girl and yeah she was cute and I know some people would make jokes about that but I wish we all could get along. well that's the best I can come up with but remember if you do come out and you feel that's what you want too do, the friends you speak of should always be your friends and if they stop then they never was your friends.
Best of luck
:)
2006-09-02 16:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your true friends you shouldn't have to hint at it you should be able to come right out and say it. Don't play games with people, that is what will upset them. Try writing an open letter on your myspace site in your blog.
2006-09-02 13:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No other way to say it but straight (no pun intended) out. If you tell them now, or in 6 months, the reaction is still going to be the same. Trust me on that one. If they really accept you for who you are, this'll be nothing to them. If they don't accept you, then why do you want them as friends anyway? my definition of a friend is someone who loves and supports you through anything. -- "A friend will bail you out of jail, but a real friend will be sitting right next to you saying, 'damn, that was fun.'" Live by that, you'll never worry again, honey.
2006-09-03 13:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cinderella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda had the same problem, i just came to a new school and i wasn't sure how to tell the friends i just made that i'm bi.
but i have this gay pride backpack and someone said something about it the other day, so i said "yeah it is the gay flag...", they said oh are you gay?
yes, i'm bi.
actually they took it better then i thought, 2 of them immediately screamed THAT IS SO COOL!
hope that helps....and don't worry, you always think people will react worse than they really do.
2006-09-02 14:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by alternachick4life1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them. Most people don't really care. You could always make out with a woman and post the video on myspace. That might let them know.
2006-09-02 15:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and your friends? I'd bring the subject up lets say about a star. You will see their reaction and get an idea of how they will act when you tell them.
Or just come right out and tell them. If they are true friends they will not care what your sexual preference is.
2006-09-02 13:06:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt tell your friends you are bi unless they make a move on you. Otherwise you put yourself in a bad situation because then it looks like you are soliciting them for relationships when you may just want friends only. If you are then you are and you should tell them directly instead of play games, they are not mind readers you know.
2006-09-02 13:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by concerned christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋