When a straight man says he doesn't like gays and you reply that he must be a gay in denial that you are making him dislike you even more . And to prove he is not gay he will escalate his hate, which makes each side want to one up the other . When it comes to slinging hate , insults , slur , etc that eventually become violent , then would it not be wise when you are out numbered ten to one and trying to recieve acceptance socially that you would choose your words more carefully.
I do like to give stupid answers to most of the gay questions , but there are a few ( very few ) gays here that I choose not to answer with stupid replys because they are smart / mature enough to ask / answer in a respectful way that shows their view without blaming or degrading people with a opposing view.
2006-09-02 13:01:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't like rappers, so I don't hang out with rappers...
But you don't like gays and hang around gays? Hmmm, me thinks the princess of the closet doth protest too much. If you were truly comfortable with calling youself straight, you wouldn't even be here.
Come on, Mary, get with it. If you are straight, your mother is a man.
2006-09-02 17:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To answer your only question.... most of us have figured it out. Now to rant a little myself... its those that come just to bash and make fun that get the insults back. Those that come in here civil never have a problem be they gay/straight/sideways whatever. If the person has already come in to say he hates gays... apparently he already has a problem with us... and someone who is that ignorant does not warrant my time or effort in a reply... But I can see how it would make others who are gay mad... just as the person who said the words intended.
So am I to understand that you are complaining that when a straight guy says he hates gays... that he gets the reply he wanted? Or else why whould he say he hates gays? Unless the question asked was "Do you hate gays?" then the comment never should have been made in the first place.
IMHO
2006-09-02 13:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by calcdffirefighter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is just that straight guys are usually confident enough in their sexuality that rather than being threatened by a question or proposition, they just turn it down and get on with their lives. When someone ends up having deep seated emotions like hate because of a flip comment, it is a sign that there's a psychological issue going on.
By the way, I'm not saying you're gay; I don't care the least bit. But I know when I get hit on by girls, I tell them I'm gay and often the first thing they try to do is "convert" me. It's annoying, but I certainly don't start escalating to hate speech and beating on misguided and not very bright people...I just ignore them and move on. I'd suggest you do the same! It's not a gay thing...trust me straight people do it to...it's a stupid and shallow person thing!
2006-09-02 15:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Gamerbear 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You do make a good point. Some people just don't like other people. Hell I know I don't like some people, and never will. I just ignore them. I think most gays are saying when a guy is Extremely Homophobic, I mean, can't even share the same room as that person or be in the same building. Psychologist have said that people who are Extremely Homophobic are most likely gay.
If someone says there not gay, then there not gay. I don't agree when some say "You don't know until you try" Bullshit, this isn't food, you etihter know your gay or not.
Advice to all don't push someone when there not comfortable talking about.
2006-09-02 15:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by ArchAngel Raziel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lol, you are expressing the very same behavior that you are complaining about. Re-read your rant in a few days.
To reply to what I think you're are trying to say:
* Violent people resort to violence. It's a a behavior that does not describe the gay community. It's a socially unacceptable behavior carried out by violent people.
* Answers is full of stupid questions and replies. It is not a gay phenomenon.
* Most gays do not make a public showing of their sexuality (unless you consider placing a picture of a partner on a desk at work or a couple holding hands or linking arms -- something same sex hetero friends/family members do, too).
* Public support for the gay community is about support for people who have been and continue to be significantly discriminated against.
Yes, a couple of these are in response to other posted replies. Ask with civility, you'll usually get civil replies. Act with a bashing tone, you'll get bashed back. That's the way it is in most things of life -- it doesn't have much to do with sexual orientation.
2006-09-02 13:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
When will YOU get it, when you come into a forum like this one and start spewing your ridiculousness you exhibit the classic signs that have been researched and show most homophobes do have very strong homosexual tendencies(sexual responses to same-sex imagery and sexual situations) and tend to attempt to escalate their denial by becoming violent.
A true straight man who does not like homosexuals would not come in this forum.
The reason that you do not attempt to "come back at" those who appear "smart" or 'respectful' is that if you did they would simply give you all the attention you deserve by ignoring you completely.
That's your issue.
You claim to hate gays but come in here and try to stir up trouble simply because you desire the attention of the gays, you enjoy antagonizing them because it excites you. It gives you a thrill.
As far as your little veiled threat about Violence, have you ever heard of PinkPistols.org ? It's an organization that trains gay men and lesbians in the use of firearms. Armed gays don't get bashed.
If you don't like gays, and you don't like having your very typically anti-gay/closet case issues thrown right back at you, leave. Otherwise you get exactly what you ask for and deserve every bit of whatever they care to dish out to you.
2006-09-02 13:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When straight people say that is what they are it is simple courtesy to respect their wishes. Any Gay man or woman I know would do that. Slinging hate is largely a function of the Christian Majority. I have never tried to make anyone else change their lifestyle, I only ask the same from them.
2006-09-02 13:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Male determine skating heavily isn't in and of itself gay, besides the indisputable fact that precise persons contained in the sport are surely flaming homosexuals (Lookin' at you Johnny Weir). Evan Lysacek isn't gay, for a jointly as there he became seeing Nastia Liukin. And from seeing his interview with Bob Costas which you should tell merely by the way he acts and talks that he's immediately. My suggestion: do no longer enable your goals be tainted by ability of what others think of. Be the guy or female you like to be.
2016-09-30 07:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's got to be a reason why all of your questions are centered in the gay category.
Why don't you just stop beating around the bush and come out with what's REALLY going on?
Personally, I don't care a flip whether some gay people tend to make the whole gay community look bad. It's the same way with any culture.....always a bad apple in the bunch.
I'm more interested in why you're hovering in the gay community all day.......that's interesting!
2006-09-03 02:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know that there are some gays out there who don't get the point, but the finger must also be pointed at straight men who can't accept a pretty girl is a lesbian. So what's good for the goose must be good for the gander, big boy. You tell your straight friends to stop hitting on lesbians, and I'll tell my gay friends to stop hitting on you.
2006-09-03 12:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Cinderella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's just like the Christians who won't believe that atheists or agnostics aren't just Christians in denial (or vice versa). Or people who can't accept that others may have different political views. Or those who "like to give stupid answers" to questions that don't concern them. Sorta makes you wonder about those people, doesn't it!
2006-09-02 13:07:01 · answer #11 · answered by Steve H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋