when i first had sex it was very easy for me to climax. im still with the same partner but after a month of so useing teh same technique i find it harder to orgasm..? is it normal?
2006-09-02 12:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
There are many variables that affect a woman's ability to be satisfied in sexual relations. Try the process of elimination:
1) How old are you?
Womens emotional amd mental attitudes about sex change during premenopause all the way through Post menopause
2)Has your emotional connection to your partner changed?
That connection (for women) is the spark that keeps you desiring that person's touch. Women are almost hard wired...love and intimacy out of bed usually equals desire IN bed.
3) How is your health? Mental and physical.
Stress, worry, fear and physical changes will blunt desire for sex. Make sure you have a physical and a visit with your OBGYN.
4)How is your relationship OUT of bed...or do you only have one IN bed?
Technique cannot take the place of loving intimacy and respect between partners.
Look to yourself for the answers. Your partner doesn't GIVE you orgasms....she/he HELPS you reach that plateau.
2006-09-02 12:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anna C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem and I wish I knew the answer. The only things I can think of is that it has to do with, or your body (or sex parts) I should say build up a tolerance. I've noticed if we've been away from each other for a while the first few times we have sex the orgasms are easier and stronger.
2006-09-02 19:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Suqui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting bored with the same technique. Time to liven things up a bit. Use your imagination. Buy a book. Buy a set of assorted vibrators. Do it in different places. Get caught by a stranger and run away naked with your clothes in your hand (watch out for the poison ivy).
2006-09-02 19:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Smarty Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. People become complacent and don't try as hard to please people. Part of sexual pleasure is also about doing different things and trying new techniques every time they have sex. Do that, and the orgasms will come back.
2006-09-02 19:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by cjsmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because her body is getting use to your penis shape and adjusting to it. It is sort of like memory foam cushions in your shows that remember the way your feet shape is. This is probably why alot of girls go and sleep with other men and say the sex was better, and then after a few weeks with them they come back and apologize because their vagina got used to them. Its all about shape and size, its because her vagina is shaped to your penis and use to it!!
2006-09-02 19:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by Joann Foxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you guys are doing anything different. Have you been under a lot of stress lately? That might be the cause.
2006-09-02 19:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by snowgi7574 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋