My Bf was stayin with me for a couple weeks because she had nowhere to go after she had to move out of a house she was renting. So I invited her to stay with me & my family. she stayed with us for a month. At the end of the month she got a place and did say anything to she just moved her stuff and didnt tell me or my family that she was leavin and we were all there. she walked past all of us in the Living room and did say a word. So I didnt say anything to her all I did was to avoid any contact with her . So was I wrong?
2006-09-02 12:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
d
2006-09-02 12:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by ĵōē¥ → đ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are always two sides to every story, never forget that.
It does sound as if you were there for her when she needed you, but did something ''go wrong" while she was staying with you? It sounds like she left upset with you and your family? So what else happened? Was there some sort of confrontation? Did your family ask her to leave or start paying for the pop tarts she was eating?
In any case, It certainly would have been appropriate for her to thank you for your hospitality and thank your family for being so generous and helpful.
This may be a friendship that couldn't survive living together...
2006-09-02 12:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds like she may have been angry about something when she left but that is still no excuse for not thanking you and your family for giving her a place to stay. How important is this friendship to you? If you miss her and want to renew your friendship,then approach her the next time you see her and ask innocently if she was angry about something when she left. If she refuses to answer and avoids making eye contact, you can choose to end the friendship there or encourage her to talk about it. Maybe someone in your family can shed some light on the subject. Ask about it.
2006-09-02 12:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by jidwg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that your friend tohught a month was way too long for her stauing there, and by getting another place she'd be "doing something good". So, I don't know why you got mad at ther, I mean I kind of understand that you felt hurt because she didn't comunicate better with you, but talk things out first!
2006-09-02 12:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see two possible answers, which I humbly present to you. Simply put ... I would think she took advantage of the free ride and got off perhaps. Or maybe your boyfriend did something to disrespect her, causing her to act the way she did. Not wanting to stir any turmoil she up and left the situation. Two plausible answers, but only one way to find out ... keep the lines of communications open to at least find out the answer for yourself.
2006-09-02 12:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by uxemacs2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bf means bestfriend,ryt?
that ir not just a disrespectful of her, she is also ungrateful. if she apologize to u just accept it politely but i think she is not a good person and u can find better friends than her.
2006-09-02 12:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was pretty wrong of her to do that. she sounds like one of my cousin's friends. once she had a party at their house while my cousin's family was out.
2006-09-02 12:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by ?Jay Red! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you were right!
thats why you can't help anyone these days and even when you DO: they stab you in the back!
and that is why you shoulda charged her *** 4 rent
2006-09-02 12:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Maryah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask your self that you or any body in your family did any thing that made her sad .
2006-09-02 12:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by khaled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly not! she was rude and good for u for doing that!
2006-09-02 12:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋