my ex and i have been in court for the last four years over numorus things all basicly brought on by him. i have had to go through so much and then i have to fight him back to protect my children and myself. my ex recently got a settlement for a large amount of money and is still behind on child support. in june i left my apartment to move back in with my mother to take care of her after her third major back surgery before then he was fighting me for joint cutody and now he is fighting me for full custody and several other things i would like to know what to do from here just even a peice of mind
hopefully from someone who has been through a
simular situation the stress is eating me alive !!
2006-09-02 12:07:59 · 8 answers · asked by CHEVY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do have a lawyer.
i have no reason to have my children taken. i have always been there since day 1,
he became a father when my youngest was a year old
i do not fight with him he gets angry about stupid things and fights me.
all comuniction is through wirtting on my end now.
i also had to suck up the fact that there is no financial help coming in from a man who can afford it but invite him to my sons first day of school which he brought his girlfriend and didn't help pay for supplies or registration. he dosen't work and neither dose his girlfriend.
i have a full time job and even though there is a court order for support and help with daycare i am the one paying!
not him
2006-09-02 12:48:59 · update #1
well its ur responsiblity to report him for bein late on the child support and if he can prove he is more financially stable and fit than u he stands a better chance of gettin the kids then u do...aint much u can do but turn him in for non payment of child support if he is harrassing u ..then prove it..with emails or letters or messages from the phone
2006-09-02 12:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going through all this drama because this is what you want to do....get a lawyer and let the lawyer know what you expect from him...1)...divorce..2)..child support..3)half of any income that he has...4) half of his retirement,if he is in titled to any, and quit all that arguing and just go on and let nation takes its course....all of this unnecessary fighting is only going to put you in the hospital for stress related heart attack
2006-09-02 12:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is backed in child support and he has the money to pay it the judge will OK hard at that , and in most states even if he ends up getting custody it doesn't change what he owes unless you agree
2006-09-02 12:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten,Doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have the child support enforced. When this happens if he does not pay, his wages will be garnished. You will even get his income tax return until he is current. You can also have it set up for him to pay your legal fees!
2006-09-02 12:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by SVW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad that it has gotten so bad. The kids are the ones that wind up hurt.
2006-09-02 12:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call child support enforcement in your area
2006-09-02 12:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have ignored the warning signs when you guys were dating, but good luck with that
2006-09-02 12:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by onefatwhiteguy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your lawyer.
2006-09-02 12:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋