my b/f know a few girls that he talks to. that was ok. now he wants to go to another state to see one of his friends alone. should i be worried?
2006-09-02 11:59:02 · 26 answers · asked by SUE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nope
2006-09-02 12:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by craig e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Males treat friendship much different than females. Can a male have a female friend yes he cant he just may not be capable of it. I was listening to a talk radio show about this very subject and many men were interviewed about female Friends nearly 90% said they would have sex with their female friends if allowed. Furthermore most men stated they chose female Friends because they found them desirable! Now you said hes your BF hardly a marriage! You have some tough decisions. I would want to know why he "has" to go alone? If its nothing then your going along should be no problem. Honestly girl men don't have female Friends they have females they would bang if allowed and that's why they keep then close!
2006-09-02 19:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him. What you really want is a validation your relationship is strong.Your fear is losing his love and the lack of strength within yourself. It is not if you trust him, because trust is something you give away unconditionally, but it is in fact you might not trust yourself enough. Remember the truth will always reveal itself if you are true to yourself. One way to build love is to allow space, thats a sure fire way of making a mans heart grow fonder towards you. He will do anything in the world to make you happy so don't turn this situation into an entanglement but rather a stronger relationship.
2006-09-02 19:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by mikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not be worried. A person can only be friends with someone of the opposite sex.If they know where to draw the line then you have noyhing to worry about.
2006-09-02 19:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took a psychology class and my professor said no. that once a boy sees a girl in a bikini or in something skimpy things change for him. in my opinion its always different for a girl. i have a friend who im not interested in and that i dont think about in any other way than a friend but he wouldn't mind sleeping with me, even if it were only for a night.
2006-09-02 19:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering why would he go to another state and not take you. If she is just a friend than she should understand that he is in a relationship and needs to bring his girlfriend.
2006-09-02 19:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a cool idea. It is totally ok and possibleto be friends with the opposite sex. Let him go, you gotta trust him.
2006-09-02 19:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he ever given you reason not to trust him? if no then by all means let him go, dont act insecure about this bcuz that will push him away, i belive men and women can just be friends 2 of my closest friends are guys, if my bf has a problem with it thqts his prob, but he doesnt because of TRUST.
2006-09-02 19:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by smiley283 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When me and my boyfriend started going out he was always talking to his ex-girlfriend from like 10 years ago. What made it worse was that when he talked to her he would go into the other room so i couldn't hear. I got mad at him and he hasn't spoken to her since.
2006-09-02 19:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be. He can't be just friends. Didn't you ever see the movie "When Harry met Sally?" It answered that question once and for all.
2006-09-02 19:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your level of trust in your bf depends on whether or not you should be worried. Only you can make that decision.
2006-09-02 19:02:55 · answer #11 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋