How do i get her to loose a bit of weight without hurting her feelings?
2006-09-02 11:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by Steve C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe you both can become involved in exercising.
2006-09-02 11:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by tracytracyspikes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With love, sit down and talk to her. She needs to really really feel that you love her for her. That you love her soul. Then explain that your attraction to her is fading due to her weight gain. Let her know that you will still love her no matter what, but if you're not attracted or it takes more to get an erection, you can't help or control that. Also tell her the many health reasons why she needs to lose weight, stay toned, and in shape.
2006-09-02 18:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has she put on wight,is it due to her having a baby,something medically wrong or has she just put on weight for no real reason.Find the cause for her weight gain,and then you will know how to handle the situation.
2006-09-02 18:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
POLITELY ask her to go for walks. POLITELY join a gym because you need to lose weight. Here is your stragegy:
You: Honey, I have put on a little and weight and would like to join a gym. Would you like to do it together?
Honey: No.
You: Aw, Cmon! Itll be fun! We can swim and do cardio!
Honey: Look at me, I dont look good in a swimsuit.
You: Ok. How about walks then?
You have to do this one together.
2006-09-02 18:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her lose the wieght she has to want to do it on her own. Making comments and telling her to lose the wieght will only make it worse. Help her out by saying that the whole family should be eating better and exercising to not put the issue on her.
2006-09-02 18:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's not already aware of that herself, tell her. You should explain it to her, nicely. I'm sure she will understand. During her process of losing weight you should be supportive and encouraging. I hope you will get over this problem.
2006-09-02 19:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by cityexplorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being honest. just go to her and say honey i love you and i will never stop but because i love you i have to tell you that you've gained a bit of weight. its noticeable and i wanted to extend my help if so you will take it with happiness of us doing something together. i hope that helps. if she still doesn't try to lose weight she may have issues. then i don't know what to advise. good luck
2006-09-02 18:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she gained the weight because your "wick" isn't worth lighting!
2006-09-02 18:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by mevsthekids 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shoot her with a sleeping dart. put her out for a long time. then get her lipo sucktion. all she'll notice is that a "mircale" happened last night and she got a new scar.
2006-09-02 18:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Luckiest Guy Alive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you saying you only love her for her looks dont worry about the weight you married her for better or worse love her for who she is
2006-09-02 18:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋