we havent sleep in the same room for over 4 years,we havent done anything in over 6 1/2 years.going on 7 years.he sleeps in his room ,i sleep in mine.what do u think of this?would u do this and stay married.or would u say **** this,and move him out?.
2006-09-02 11:39:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he is a good husband in other areas, I will carry on with him. Sex is not that important.
2006-09-02 22:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. My only question to him would be why? I can understand a temporary situation in which sleeping in two rooms is necessary...but not long term. They say that communication is the cornerstone in any relationship, I would say you both need to sit and talk. Express your feelings and concerns...obviously it bothers you...maybe he doesn't know that. Besides, this could be bothering him as well and he never chalked up the courage to discuss it either. However, if you both come at an impass on the issue, I would try counceling before actually seeking a divorce. A good theropist will get to the root of the issue and bring it to light.
Hope this helps
2006-09-02 18:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A relationship cannot be a good one if you are sleeping in seperate rooms of the house. You need to sit yourself down and ask "Is this what I want in a relationship?" After you honestly answer that question then you go from there. I don't think it is right for you or your husband to put yourselves through this form of life.
2006-09-02 19:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey you need to talk to him or just file for divorce without letting him know maybe that will snap him out of it or he will be happy either way you can not go on like this it is not healthy for you to be in a relationship where two people do not even sleep in the same room. Good Luck
2006-09-02 18:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by twinki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would depend on the situation. If he was sick and he couldn't have sex then I would stay in the relationship. If he has a healthy body then I would wonder why he wouldn't want to sleep with me. There must be problems out of the bedroom as well, in order for you two to be in seperate beds. Talk to him about this situation if it bothers you.
2006-09-02 18:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have been done with that a long time ago. You need to have love and happiness in your life. Don't waste your life away living like that. Go out have fun and enjoy someone that wants to be with you. Good luck.
2006-09-02 18:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's a problem with your marriage it seems. Are you happy? Is he happy? That's the main question. Talk about it before "moving him out"
2006-09-02 21:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a marriage anymore.Move him out and get on with your life.
2006-09-02 22:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by hungerforknowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, no. If it has gotten to that point then u don't even have a marriage anymore. It's time to move on.
2006-09-02 18:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how is the rest of your relationship? if this scenario is indicative of the other parts, then get the hell out. why have you waited 7 years?
2006-09-02 19:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋