I'm tired of my friends trying to pressure me into sex with another woman. I feel very uncomfortable with that. Are they just out to make me look like an idiot? Because they think I should try it, but they don't want me. That's why I think they want something to negatively use against me.
Would it hurt to try just once, just to shut their faces up?
2006-09-02 11:20:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the mire factor that people are pushing you into doing it, and you are resisting should tell you that it is wrong.
More than likely it is a prank, there is nothing more vicious than a shild, and im sure many would love something like that to throw in your face, or pawn off to guys.
2006-09-02 15:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do it just for your friends' pressure that is wrong because you should not do something that is against your values just because of their pressure.
But if you are really curious to try it once and find a real nice partner then why not(?). But be carefull, you might like it! With few drinks and a nice and considerate partner you might not want to do it again but you probably won't be sorry you tried and then maybe just stop immediately when you feel like it ( hoping you tell her in advance what is this all about).
2006-09-02 11:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by bibibibi? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it hurt to try it? Probably not, but ultimately the choice rests with you. You will be the one that lives with what you've done everyday even after your friends have been weeded out. Do not jump at the chance because of peer pressure, always look at the situation and make your own choice about it so that you will only have yourself to blame because too often we're angry that someone bamboozled us into doing something and we didn't think about it enough to have made a good (the right) decision. Is it wrong that you do it? I guess that's up to your own morals standards. Whatever your choice be reday for the consequences.
2006-09-02 11:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by laydlo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they're pressuring U in2 it why help them by doing exactly what they're trying 2 get U 2 try!
If the thought makes U feel uncomfortable, U really shouldnt't even try.
Stick with UR gut feeling, don't do it.
2006-09-02 11:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends told you to take off your clother and run naked in the street you would do it just to shut them up? This is just peer presure. You should not do anything you do not want to do or are comfortable wiith. NO MATTER WHAT. You are the person who has to deal with the outcome of your actions not them.
2006-09-02 11:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by thebulktiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is something you really want to try, then find your own partner to try it with that you know you can trust. To do something just to please others is never a good idea, and always comes back on you when you need it the least.
2006-09-02 11:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by mother_of_bonehead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... If you aren't attracted to your own gender why try it? Just because people want you to do something doesn't mean you have to. Like if someone tried to get you to do drugs and you really didn't want to, would you do it just to shut them up? I hope not.
2006-09-02 11:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by jazzyjen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand your ground on this. You do not want to be associated with sickos like that. being a F A G is an abomination. Read the bible.
2006-09-02 11:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find some self esteem. Why would you let yourself be pressurised into something that you don't want? Why would you call people like that your friends?
2006-09-02 11:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to then don't and I think anyone pressuring you to do something you don't want would not really classify as a friend.
2006-09-02 11:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋