2006-09-02 11:09:39 · 29 answers · asked by smartypantz49 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Every guy is different! The only definite sign is if you catch him cheating. Another problem is that if you get paranoid, you'll notice things - and get upset over them - when they actually mean nothing, simply because you're constantly watching for them. I think the best thing to do is to sit down and have a heart-to-heart about whether the current relationship is working out, or if it should be less serious (or simply ended). And coming from the perspective of psychology, a lot of the "signs" and "signals" I read about could be easily explained by a million other things.
But if you want "signs", here's what the internet thinks:
"32 Emotional Signs That He's Cheating"
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscheating/0,,nt4p,00.html
"Seventeen Magazine's Top Five Signs"
http://www.seventeen.com/reallife/guys/articles/0,,625902_634996,00.html
An unbelievably huge and savvy list:
http://manhaters.com/catch-a-cheater.asp
I just want to warn you though - once you start a cycle of distrust, it will never end. You'll never be able to stop looking for signs.
Communication, communication, communication...
2006-09-02 11:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by ghost orchid 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 22:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he buys you a cell phone even if you don't want one. This way he can call you anytime to find out exactly where you are. If he is not at the place he says he is gonna be. Wearing aftershave and cologne to work when he usually doesn't. If he starts doing things like working out, buying new underwear and outfits all the time when normally he don't spend a lot of money or time on his looks. Saying he is working when he isn't. Not answering his phone when you call. Going into the next room to take a call. If his lips are moving.....? Just watch his expressions when he is lying. He will buy you gifts when he feels guilty and start being extra nice to you for no reason. Watch what I tell you this is a normal reaction. He will start getting caught in lies. Good luck!
2006-09-02 11:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are truly no definate signs but his moods and the way he use to treat you dramatically change. All of a sudden he wants to hang with the boys all the time and he wants some him time when he acts differently than normal and shyt just don't add up he's doing something! The best one is the Lying
2006-09-02 11:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Danette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think looking at other girls is any indication. Everybody looks at other people. Guys and girls. It doesn't mean anything.
Do you live together? If not then you can't really tell. If he backs out of plans that could be a sign.
Try popping in frequently. Esp. on weekends if he is supposed to be home busy. If he's not then he's prob cheating.
2006-09-02 11:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definite signs of a cheating boyfriend is if he is canceling stuff that has just you and him time. Another one is if he's never with you like he was or was suppose to be. Also, if he puts up unromantic dates with you. I hope this helps.
2006-09-02 11:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by idkmybffrose 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a little less interest in you, maybe exhibiting more confidence than usual. having "hoes in different area codes" really boosts a man's ego, and it shines through his self-confidence. feels like he can get away w/ more little things w/ you (knowing that you're not the only girl he's getting some from). And watch for him trying new things in the bedroom. i mean, guys will do that sometimes, but if it's right during the time that you're suspecting him, then that's a dead ringer.
2006-09-02 11:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kalinka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only DEFINATE sign is if you catch him in bed with another woman.
2006-09-02 11:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You see your boyfriend with other girl.
You find love note, dated and current, written from boyfriend to other girl.
Your boyfriend calls you the wrong name all the time.
2006-09-02 11:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by steelypen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesn't spend a lot of time w/ u
hardly ever calls u when u know he has time to
conversations are short cuz he has to "leave" or "do somethin"
always on the phone w/ someone he won't tell u or seems to be
lying about
2006-09-02 11:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋