i've now fallen for two of my close guy friends one i actually went out with and screwed up our friendship. The other i got drunk with and made out with.. I now think I'm falling for another. Why do I keep doing this?
2006-09-02 10:30:05 · 13 answers · asked by chatterboxrools 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
because you're a sucker.
2006-09-02 10:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by the one 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its the Edmund Hillary defense:
Its unfortunately, hormonal and part of the mating instinct. I even found myself having romantic thoughts over a guy I hung out with who I had very little in common with and was 30 years older than me. Why? Because he was there. He was old and wise enough to tell me to take it down a notch.
Almost ev ery male you sepnd a significant amount of time with will set off these hormones. The good news is, once you recognize it for what it is, it's easy enough to fantasize and feel the same way about someone else.
Maybe find some female friends to balance you out.
2006-09-02 17:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoy the closeness and security that your guy friends give you and you want that in a relationship as well, and more often than not it ends badly, as you have said. What was the reaction of the guy friend you kissed drunkenly? You never said.
2006-09-02 17:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you confuse friendship with lust. Your better off to stop an think rather have them as lifew long friends than a fling an lose them for ever.
2006-09-02 17:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going down that road myself- at least you kind of know where you are as in if/should/ on the chance that he feels the same it's mutual and guess he's thinking along the same lines as you; try falling for you best friend, whose a guy, who thinks the world of you..........and whose as gay as christmas
2006-09-02 23:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather fall for your enemies or people you didn't like ?
If things work out in your love life then your partner will be your best friend.
2006-09-02 22:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by CeeVee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are probably mis-interpreting friendliness and kindness from these guys as a come-on.
You need to recognise the difference between friendliness and flirtiness.
2006-09-02 21:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r so close 2 them u start feel more then friendship
2006-09-02 17:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by cocopuff4o4 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe 'cause they are always there for you, have the qualities you like, etc. there are loads of reasons
2006-09-06 08:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mystique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you enjoy being screwed up and drunk.
2006-09-02 17:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
fall for me instead save all arguments hehehe lol
2006-09-02 17:32:22 · answer #11 · answered by matthewhrsfll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋