2006-09-02 10:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Sometimes when someone feels like they have been done wrong, then all they know how to do is act out in this way, by not wanting to forgive. She or he may feel like this is hurting you because this is what they feel like has been done to them. So best thing to do is give it time and if you never speak again, then that really was not your true friend. True friends always forgive and then get on with things, like being friends again.So sorry that your friend is acting so childish.But don't try so hard to make up. All you can do is be there and let your friend know that whatever was done was not done to hurt. Also let this person know how much your friendship means to you, then if this person is not wise enough to let go and say ok. You will have to move on. Good Luck!
2006-09-02 12:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B prepared, U may have 2 wait a long while 4 her 2 calm down.
& expect 2 mayB not B 4given, ever.
Try not 2 push her U may make it worse.
Sorry, I can't think of a quick fix 4 U.
U could write a letter but leave it B, until she gets in contact.
Good Luck.
:)
2006-09-02 10:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably have to find new friends, but maybe you can find a way to undo the damage rather than just using words. If you were gossiping about her for example, go to the people you were gossiping to and tell them you were wrong.
2006-09-02 11:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i know that i cant talk my way out of a situation that i behaved my way into
that means that no matter how many times i apologize for my actions, i may not be forgiven until the person can see that my actions are now different...
give them some time... and if they still dont want to talk to you, then they werent meant to be in your life...
goodluck
2006-09-02 10:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never say sorry but once, Your best friend probably knows that you are co-dependent. So why talk to you, they know that you'll keep on.
2006-09-02 12:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go and when the best friend is ready to be an adult about things then he/she will come back to you.
Jerry
2006-09-02 12:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only wait for time to heal whatever wound may have been inflicted.
2006-09-02 10:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from your best friend and don't look back!
2006-09-02 10:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the one who effed things up. you just have to LET her get over it rather than to crowd her with appologies that really mean nothing to her.
2006-09-02 10:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is that unforgiving, I would find a new friend.
2006-09-02 10:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋