I told my husband several times that I want sex more often and he hasn't responded. What do I do?

Answer 1

get sexy-and confident-and if that doesn't work-tell him you'll go else where-it's just talk-don't be afraid to speak up!!!

Answer 2

I'd suggest that you talk to him about the reasons WHY he doesn't want more sex, however resolving those issues may be difficult to impossible.

I've got the same issue with my wife, so I understand your frustration. We have sex maybe once a month, whereas I'd like it four or five times a week. In her case, she has had a lifelong issue with body image - she's a 5'7", size 4 beautiful brunette who for some unheard of reason thinks she's too ugly to be seen naked or in lingerie (except a nasty ugly cotton granny nightie).

We understand the problem. She's even seen a therapist a few times about it. Still, like you, I get the cold shoulder more than anything else.

The first step, whatever the cause, is to understand the underlying cause. We're still working through the resolution of that cause. You'll likely have to as well. It could be stress at work. Maybe some other issues between you. Possibly a physical cause is driving his coldness. Figure that out as your first step, then work on the cause.

Good luck.

Answer 3

#1 he's probably already relieved himself by himself...and his needs are met. and probably does not take you serious anyway!
#2 he's addicted to porn this illness will prevent him from having sex with you!#3 he's having problems holding it long enough to satisfy you and feels like he's too embarrassed to tell you.#3 he
has problems and is thinking you'd think less of him. #4 he could be very ill and this is a side effect. #5 he could be drinking too much alcohol ...this may be effecting his being able to hold an erection.#6 he has slept with someone else and has an std and does not want to give it to you....probably not, but possible! Too many things...just give him room, keep letting him know you are interested...but don't be too pushy! Don't speculate or accuse!
You want sex with your husband...be sexy...be sweet...be nice
and give him room to make the move and never reject him! You
can make the move...but be subtle...and coy...but carefull not to
damage his ego!

Answer 4

I have a similar issue with my woman. It's a sensitive subject. I will tell you that repeatedly telling him you want more will simply put pressure on him. When I told her I wanted more she felt bad about herself and that can't help. What I did was to back off a little and then I began seducing and initiating rather than asking. It's kind of like when one is dating and you're tryin' to get some. With the right mind set it's kind of fun. It's a challenge, rather than just saying I want some. Try it I hope it works for you.

Answer 5

Go on with life just like I have...lol...I have the same problem with my husband. Wish I could give you some sound advice but since I have the same problem as you do I guess my advice doesnt count...lol...I just responded to let you know that you arent alone in this problem. God bless and good luck

Answer 6

First, ask yourself why you want more. Try a little seduction. Ask why he wants it less often than you do. You may just be less compatible in this area.

Answer 7

Do what I did and be happy again, DIVORCE, you ll see, or just wait many years, and realize it when your to old to care,
DIVORCE IS THE GREATEST THIS SINCE MARRIAGE!!

Answer 8

Find out why he is saying No.....Most guys are not shy about being blunt!

Answer 9

Email me, and I'll fit ya in my schedule

Answer 10

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