Is it normal? He's a great catch as they say...but.........
2006-09-02 09:32:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The grass is always greener...
I think 2nd thoughts are normal. As long as he loves you, treats you with respect and values you, you'll be O.K.
2006-09-02 09:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I'm perfectly contented where I am. The fact that u are having second thoughts suggest that there are some unresolved issues you are having about your mate. I don't know what your status is (married/engaged) but if u are just engaged then it's better to postpone the wedding until u are sure this is the person u want to be with. U don't want to get married for all the wrong reasons and end up in divorce court where it's going to be even more of a mess.
2006-09-02 16:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't say what your status is....sure some second thoughts are normal.....but more Than a few and it might be warning....only you can examine that.....a great catch, a nice guy or who wouldn't love him doesn't mean love ....if you have to talk yourself into it... a sign...because you don't love someone or aren't attracted to them doesn't mean there is anything wrong with him or you.....be careful..it is hard being in a relationship when you don't love someone no matter how great a catch they are...some soul searching is all I can suggest
2006-09-02 16:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by befuddled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having second thoughts about my marriage, we have been together for 14 years married for 7. I think we just have grown apart and doing our own thing. I still love him but not in love with him.
2006-09-02 16:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider myself married my spouse and I did not have a big ceremony. That is what I forsee to make it official and have a big service.
2006-09-02 16:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those "buts" will get to people every time. That's why I stay single and don't date. Don't need or want any problems or hassles.
2006-09-02 16:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO..none of the above. I don't even have a boyfriend right now.
2006-09-02 16:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by MiLuv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd thoughts and 3rd and 4th and 5th etc...etc...
2006-09-02 16:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋