Or are we just deceitiful to oursleves and/or naive in our expectations?
2006-09-02 09:31:28 · 23 answers · asked by London 5 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Everyone, read this than messege me about the answer:
1 Corinthians 13
The Greatest Gift
1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned,[a] but have not love, it profits me nothing.
4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
8 Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part. 10 But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.
11 When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.
13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
2006-09-02 10:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to you second question ... yes to your first ... love being love is heaven, but just like everything else in life in a relationship there are going to be ups and downs ... how ever if you are having more downs than ups then its time to exit that relationship. Partners are supposed to support each other and help the otherone feel good about themselves, we all make mistakes though, and sometimes the mistakes hurt the one that we love the most, that is the truest test of love there. Learned that the hardway. If your lover isn't your BEST friend, then you may or may not have problems on down the line, but if they are your best friend, and you do truly love them (only you can know that), then you will have a relationship that will be a heaven on earth so to speak. goodluck
2006-09-02 16:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Zenas Walter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love should not feel like hell or it is not love you are feeling.
Sounds like you have been burnt pretty bad. I'm sorry. There is a really good book called "How to find a date worth keeping". It is soft cover and inexpensive, you should pick up a copy.
It can really help you break out of your current cycle, because what you have been doing has not been working.
Good luck, God Bless.
2006-09-02 16:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal Violet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love should never remind you of hell, or it isnt really love. You may in lust and in hell, but love takes you to a place in yourself that you could never get to without it. Love is the closest to heaven that you can get on Earth
2006-09-02 16:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It may start as heaven and finish as hell. Some marriages last forever, others end before they start. It is sometimes a matter of expectations.
2006-09-02 16:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by robert43041 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if it's that much hell then it ain't LOVE!!!
being in a relationship can be hard but if two people love
each other it shouldn't be hell.
move on if he's a jerk....but remember, it takes two to tango,
maybe there are things that need to be cleared up.
Good Luck, love is a precious gift, hope you find it:)))
2006-09-02 16:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
50/50
2006-09-02 16:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is more heaven, for some reason us humans are confused to the meaning of love. and how to give it. having sex is NOT love.
2006-09-02 16:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the first question, if it is then its time for a change!
For the second: yes!
2006-09-02 16:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by professor x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god made man then woman made man to averigate the hell out of women so women can go to heaven
2006-09-03 22:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋