why does my partner always look at other girls and he knows it up sets me I'm beautiful also?

Question

and when i say to him about it he says its not that he wants them but why do it if i do it theres an argument

Answer 1

Men are genetically drawn to the opposite sex. I know, I can`t help it either. ever since puberty, men have always had the desire and instinct to look. It`s not uncommon, every heterosexual male does it. Not only that, who has him, them or you?

Answer 2

The problem is, that it is soooo difficult not to look. If you had the most perfect house (for eg.) in the world, you would still look at other people's houses, wouldn't you? Of course, and not necessarily to compare, but just because you appreciate them. Beauty is always beautiful, and we all appreciate it. We can admire it without wanting to possess it, and that's what he is doing.

I know it's not quite as simple as that, but you have to trust each other. He's just looking.

Answer 3

I look at other women as well. I have been happily married for 7 years now. I'd never think of trading that for a chance encounter with anyone I find attractive in passing. She knows I look, but she also knows that at the end of the day I will come home to her as the faithful dumb dog that I am.
You are horribly insecure, that is the real issue here. That is not to say your bf is not as bad as you believe him to be, but you need to deal with your issue, not his. If it bothers you that much, leave him.

Answer 4

1) He doesn't give a damn what you think.

2) You aren't as beautiful as you think you are

3) He loves you enough to show you a little humility.

4) Obviously there are a lot of arguments in this relationship.

Answer 5

If you have a wonder full picture how do you know how beautiful it is if you do not compare it to the one you have!

Beware - sounds like your insecurities may be driving you apart.

I am blissfully happy with my wife and she would never think to expect me to keep my eyes off other women. She knows I love her and would not stray.

Pity your relationship is not that strong but it could be if you would see a little sense and work at it!!

Good luck!!

Answer 6

in ther long run some of the clothe women wear put it all on show my partner looks at girls as they go past but he comes home with me. do you never look at a fit bloke as he walks by just cause men usually say whats she not wearing or something we notice more.

or try playing him at his own game when a fit guy walks past make sure he notices you are looking or make a comment like4 hes got a nice bum then when he pulls you up about it explain you are just trying to show him how it makes you feel i am sure he will stop then if he wont listen to how you feel now. as he probably sees it as harmless

Answer 7

Do you look at other men? say a hunky builder with his shirt off? Its the same thing. Men do this all the time, it doesnt mean they are about to leave you and stray, although by carrying on about it you might push him too far......

Answer 8

He does it because he is a man & they find shapes & curves pleasing to look at. Women also look but don't gey caught as they have better peiripheal vision whereas men have tunnel vision. You have to learn to ignore it cus if you don't you'll drive him away.

Answer 9

He's a man. Men have the desire and capability to mate with many women, that's the nature of men in this world - to procreate.

Answer 10

stop getting upset...if he stares then get upset. Men and women look all the time. When I am with my husband I see him look and it doesn't bother me because he doesn't stare and in respect I do the same..staring is when it becomes disrespectful. Stay gorgeous girl!!!