2006-09-02 09:17:38 · 11 answers · asked by orange_smudge 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
stay married and forget him/her
2006-09-02 09:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by maximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're married and you let yourself get into a situation with someone else, then it kind of says a whole lot about your marriage ....
i think you should consider very carefully what your life will be like in 6 months. why did you fall in love with someone else? what did this person give you that you weren't getting from your spouse? did you go looking for this relationship or did you just allow it to happen? are you going to looking for the same things from a different person in 6 months when all the excitement has gone from your relationship with this other person?
marriage is not about always being madly in love. how did you allow your relationship with this other person to get so intense?
you might find it helpful to get away from both of them for a week or so and really think about what you want. breaking up your marriage is going to be hugely stressful and will have a lot of impact on your new relationship, if that's what you choose to do. staying with your spouse and breaking it off with the 3rd person is also going to be hard. there's really no easy way out, unfortunately.
I wish you lots of courage and honesty whatever you decide to do.
2006-09-02 16:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by stufetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay married. You'd regret a divorce in the future.
2006-09-02 17:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by Haylee N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay married. Rekindle what you had when first married. Ask your spouse to help rekindle as well. Those are my 2 cents. :)
2006-09-02 16:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by skitzil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fallen in love?And you are already married?Get into therapy.
2006-09-02 16:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do what ur heart likes...not what will make other happy. It would be sad for you to be living a lie with some one that u dont love...i hope this helps...just do what ur heart wants..
2006-09-02 16:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by spaghetti-lo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your spouse to see what he/she thinks. I bet you will get the right answer.
2006-09-02 16:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Y Answerer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through this recently and trust me when i say that you should follow your heart and whatever tells you to do .because it wont lead you astray i promise.
2006-09-02 16:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sud have a threesome....
2006-09-02 16:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Delete System32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what your heart feels.
2006-09-02 16:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋