I went out with my sister and her bf,but they just kept talking to each other and both of them totally ignored me,so I felt ignored,is this normal?what will you do if you're in that situation?
2006-09-02 09:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It is totally normal to feel ignored if you are being ignored!
It wasn't very sensative of them to make you feel like the odd wheel out. Some time when she is not with her boyfriend let her know you really enjoy spending time with her, and with them together, but you don't want to cut into their "together" time.
So if they have plans where they would rather be a couple, you would rather pass. But if they do invite you along you would appreiciate being included a little more.
Give it a couple more tries, but if they aren't able to focus on group time, politely turn down the next invitation, or invite a friend of your own and make it a foursome.
Good luck
2006-09-02 09:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal Violet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called being a third wheel. when I'm in that situation i try to make the best of it and make it as comfortable as possible. Like if i can tell they want to be alone i would be like while i gotta go to the bathroom or i have to check my messages on my cell.
2006-09-02 09:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were the third wheel....not recommended. Next time bring a friend or stay at home.
2006-09-02 09:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by melinda_rn2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring a date
2006-09-02 09:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by tanya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have gotten up and left and in the future not go out her anymore.
2006-09-02 09:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make yourself heard or leave then when she is alone talk to her about and tell her you dont want to be ignored.
2006-09-02 09:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca_colee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm hello!
she is with her boyfriend, she probably brought you as a way to keep it simple and as a way to get out when she needed to .
Or as a way to keep his hands of her (no one wants to get freaky with family around).
2006-09-02 09:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2016-01-30 10:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋