he works abroad for 6 months i feel i've lost the spark between us he is here for a 2 months vacation but we fight often
2006-09-02 09:03:43 · 5 answers · asked by meranel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's not because u don't love him anymore. It's just that he's been away for 2 long and now u both have to adjust to each other again. I've been there, my husband is in the military and sometimes he goes away for long stretches of time and when he comes back we have to pick up where we left off again so I understand where u r coming from. The most important thing is communication with each other. U can communicate how u feel without it turning into a big fight becuz u should be making more of that short time u have together.
Also, u need to decide if this kind of life is for u. If the fact that he has to be gone for 6 months out of a yr is something u r not willing to put up with, then u have to decide where to go from there.
2006-09-02 09:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't losing love for your husband you are just so use to being by yourself that now he is here you basically have to deal with each others daily being. It would be good if he could not work away for so long of periods but if he has to then you both have to realize each others habits and try to get on with it.
2006-09-02 09:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of you need counsiling to help work out the small problems, but if you're falling out of love with him, then counsiling may not help. What you need are some good friends to hang around with so that you don't dwell on the negative things in your marriage and feel alone.
2006-09-02 09:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of experience let me tell you i dont think you have lost yalls love its just probably hard on you being apart so much. try something new to spark things up and try to spend as much time with him as you can while he is there. for instance try something yall wouldnt ordianaraly do
2006-09-02 09:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two thing can happen to,one if you want to work things out.or do you went to leave and start over again. think about it.them decide.
2006-09-02 09:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋