help me im so nervous!
2006-09-02 08:14:54 · 15 answers · asked by Alisha Molono 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Im 17 and when i told my mom I was pregnant i was 15. She wanted me to get an abortion but i didnt. Go to plan parent hood. Or too the welfare office and get money from the state so you can support you and your baby while your pregnant. Move with your b/f if thats what you gota do. Or try othe family members.
Good Luck hopes it works out aswell as mines did
2006-09-02 09:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nellz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your parents might say that now, but they are hurting. I can't imagine that they will never want to see you or their grandchild again.
I'm not sure what kind of help you need. You can contact social services if you need help with money, and your boyfriend should be supporting you emotionally. If you are really hurting over your parents, keep trying to talk to them. Show that you are a mature person (you're going to have to be, you're a mom now,) and eventually the strain on your relationship might lessen.
The most important thing right now is to take care of yourself and the baby. See a doctor for your prenatal visits and take prenatal vitamins. They don't have to be expensive, go buy the store brand at Wal-Mart. And eat healthy, it will all work out in the end.
2006-09-02 15:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by S. O. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to a planned parent hood place. they can help you out A LOT. and you need to stay in school other wise you wont be able to give your child a good life.But eventually your parents will probably come around. there most likely just all stressed that your 16 and pregnant. and if your not a very Rich person. you can get aid from the state that way until you graduate, and get a career you will be able to provide for you and your baby. but good luck. i know how hard it is. i got pregnant at 15.
2006-09-02 15:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just really hate when parents turn their back on a child because they are upset with them...As if that's gonna change the situation, or help the individual having the problem. That is so ignorant...Didn't they have sex?...Don't they know that things happen?...Girl listen you are going to make it, and you will be quite okay...There are many organizations out there that will help you.
P.S. I see a couple of people have posted some negative responses. Don't pay them any mind honey, things happen.
No one is perfect. Love yourself and your unborn baby , everything will be okay. And trust in GOD!
2006-09-02 16:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by pregnant & praying now has baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i got pregnant at 16, but my parents supported me, i dont believe in abortion and i didnt give her up for adoption, not all teen mothers are bad it just takes alot of support from family and friends, im getting induced with my 2nd daughter on tuesday, im 20 yrs old now, dont dropout of school stay in that was a big mistake of mine its alot harder to get that diploma when you have kids to worry about lucky for me my school has a day care,my advice to you is exercise, eat healthy, go to the doctor for regular checkups, save money the best you can, and get plenty of sleep.
2006-09-02 15:48:43 · answer #5 · answered by army fiance 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your parents will get over it soon. They are just upset. Good luck at your boyfriends.
2006-09-02 15:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to planned parent hood.
for online help try this website
http://www.scarleteen.com/
good luck with the baby :)
and never forget your parents
no matter how they are acting.
2006-09-02 15:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by abbey356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a support group or something..You're parents should be trying to help you, not shun you. Counseling for sure..
But, honestly, you are WAY to young to be having a child...You're own problem, you should'nt have had sex at all when you are this young....why would you?
2006-09-02 15:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sixteen too and have a baby boy soon to be 2 months old. Trust me all parents get mad at first but soon they'll support you. It might take a while so be patient. and they'll absoultely love their grandchild. :)
2006-09-02 15:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once you parents realise how well things will hav worked out the will run back to you apologising.....my mum did with my sister
good luck huni x x x
2006-09-02 15:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋