i'm 14 my parent are divorce both remarried and the closes people in my family left home my friends, my friends have decide to exclude me from their lives and my boyfriends mother and me just had a hugh fight and i think we gonna break up?! what do i do?
2006-09-02 07:35:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, that really sucks, but think of this: You're still here on this Earth. The divine higher being of your choice is still shining down on you, waiting for you to ask them for help. Pray for things to get better, and then try to live life as positively as you can. Life is just too short. I can't promise miracles, but prayer helps. You have a lot more than you think. There are people out there who don't even know if they are going to live tomorrow. You have a greater chance of that than they do. Think of that.
Peace always!
2006-09-02 07:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by nessieexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As they say, sometimes you are the windshield and sometimes you are the bug. Life comes with ups and downs, the trick is to learn to make the best of it, be happy enough with yourself that your well being is not at someone elses mercy and realize that if you never had bad days you wouldn't recognize or appreciate the good ones. It will be alright, thats the thing about life, its always changing....not great when things are going well, but something to look forward to when they aren't. You also need to think that you don't always know why or where things are leading you, something that seems like the worst thing that could happen (say breaking up with the boyfriend) just might end up being the thing that puts you in a situation where something even better happens (say you find another really great bf) you never know. Hang in there!
2006-09-02 07:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try being more optimistic. Look at the bright side, if your parents are divorced then they don't have to suffer pressure being together. Think about it. If they don;'t like each other but they still are together than their life are even worse. If your boyfriends really likes you he will not break up with you despite what the mother says. If it really turns out that you break up with your boyfriend then leave him behind and find a new one.
2006-09-02 07:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably will break up. You are 14. Enjoy being 14. You have a long way to go, with a lot of changes to come.
Everything will eventually get better.
2006-09-02 07:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14? Life is a b**tch and then you die. Basically, Life if full of trials and tribulations. You're only 14 and you think you have it rough now. Wait until you become an adult, there is another set of ups and downs. Always remember that it is someone that always has it alot worse than you. and be grateful of things you do have.
2006-09-02 07:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing, just let it flow. It's good that you are learning and experiencing these things now, it's just making you a stronger person. When you become an adult, life just gets harder but you will be already prepared to be strong and pass these obstacles that life puts in 4 ya.
2006-09-02 07:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, at 14 you shouldnt have a BF, u r 2 young.
Second, there are people in this world who go to bed every night starving, with NO water, NO electricity, NO clothes, NO food, NO education, NO health care, NO FUTURE.
get over yourself, you have it great. Your problems will go away, they are fickle.
2006-09-02 07:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by steveinprague 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and face life, there is a reason for what is hapenning to you, look at yourself and ask yourself if your attitude has changed, if you are all mopey people will not want to be around you. Ask yorself if you would want to be around yourself.
2006-09-02 07:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by jetfighter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk i feel the same way sometimes i just gosh but just talk to your bfs mom let her no that u got a lil to upset try working things out with her and work your way up. bfs mom can be a b i tch sometimes but if u love the guy then some how things will work wish u the best!!
2006-09-02 07:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's just the way life is. You just gotta pick yourself up and keep going.
2006-09-02 07:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋