i am a cheater yah but wut shout i do i feel bad n regret..
2006-09-02 07:32:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to ask yourself if she had cheated on you, wouldn't you want to know the truth? It' always better to be honest with the person but most importantly with yourself. If you don't tell her and someone else does. Thinks are gonna be worst!! If you had the guts to do it you should have them for facing the reality.. Good luck to you hope you learn your listen. Playing with others feelings it's not a good thing!!!
2006-09-02 08:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling bad are we now Steven! YOU SHOULD!!!!!! You feel sorry now till the next time you get it in your head, {not that one, sorry!lol} you want to cheat "AGAIN"????? I don't know your relationship ,but I bet if she finds out from anybody but you it's over! Even if "you" do tell her, those no guarantee she'll still want you!You just broke all trust between you. How does that make you feel? You have 2 choices1. Tell her yourself and hope she can forgive you. 2. Don't tell her and "hope" she'll never find out!Either way your a "looser"! I hope you have a good relationship with the person you cheated with because if you were telling me your "***" would be out the door!
2006-09-02 07:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ben why are you caught with a 33 twelve months old woman? have you ever misses a mom's love as you grew up which you're searching for for that care a mom supplies? you're purely 19 and you have an entire life previous to you. She already a mom and way older than you. She could desire to be a extreme high quality guy or woman, yet you're able to desire to ask your self whether you desire to take a accountability of an older woman and her little ones? and he or she additionally lied to you. What else is she hiding from you - you're able to desire to verify it out. Ben you're able to do greater clever than this, otherwise its your decision and your life.
2016-10-01 05:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're any kind of otherwise decent guy, the guilt will haunt you for the rest of your relationship.
I have one friend who says that if her boyfriend (of nearly 4 years) ever cheated on her just once, she wouldn't want to know. Probably because she slipped up and cheated on him and didn't want to tell him. If it were me, though, I'm all about honesty-is-the-best-policy. It's your call. But whatever happens, DON'T DO IT AGAIN.
2006-09-02 07:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by sun of samsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what you have to do. Tell her and wait to hear what she says. You know it's not going to be pretty, but you should do it because if she finds out from someone else, you may never have a chance with her again.
2006-09-02 07:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by nessieexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you are better to carry the guilt and not tell her. Why would you want to hurt her by telling her? If you don't love her telling her might be an easy way out.
2006-09-02 10:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i know how u feel u shouldnt have done it but yeah u did so just talk to her about it yeah she is going to be a lil upset and might break it off but you have to tell her befor she finds out from somebody else and that could be alot worser just tell her hope things work for u!!!!!!
2006-09-02 07:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should since she wasn't the person who did any wrong!!!I am sure you would have wanted to know as well if you were in her shoes.Be honest and dont expect anything back she deserves to go on with her life and find someone who will appreciate her!!!You r doing the right thing!!!
2006-09-02 07:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will find out the quetion is do u want to be with her. its btter u call it a huge mistake and beg her forgivness than she finds out from som eone else and u lose her forever
2006-09-02 07:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it ant better but yes u should tell before someone Else dose but they always fine out i know my ex-wife tried that and i cot her
2006-09-02 07:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by sadley696969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋