2006-09-02 07:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by paco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been divorced from my ex for over 15 years. No matter how much time passes, I'll still be bitter toward her. I could have gotten over it if she'd have just decided to divorce me, or even if she'd just shot me a few times. But, she went way farther. No human being has ever done such lousy things to me as my ex did, and lived. For my childrens' sake, I've not killed her, but IF both my kids were to pass, she'd die too, and I'd honestly believe I'd done the world a favor by eliminating an evil humanoid. Assuming your bitterness is justified, why wouldn't it continue? Time may heal all wounds, but it doesn't heal or minimize evil, injustice, or betrayal. I'd hope she contracted aids, but I'd feel guilty for wishing some poor virus was forced to live in her body.
2006-09-02 09:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you are bitter for reasons. I know that it is very difficult, but you must let go of the past and see what it is that you are looking at now. It sounds like you have something good going and that is what counts. If you do have contact with your ex wife treat her nicely, it might be difficult, but try your best
2006-09-02 14:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you talk with her open an honestly about what went wrong in your marriage and accept that she is always going to have a place in your heart then the bitterness may go away. Even if it doesn't it will give you a little peace of mind knowing that you tried to make things better between oyu two.
2006-09-02 14:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by south heart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a good thing going for you, so why not just do it completely and be nice to your ex. Forgive and forget. I have 2 exes and I get along with them great, why not, they are the mother of my 3 children. You loved her once, try liking her now.
2006-09-02 19:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time my dear friend, time... Once she gets over you and the fact you have moved on she will be easier to deal with.
2006-09-02 14:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by NIKKI K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe by apologizing for any wrongdoing you did or hurt feelings in the marriage and move from their.
2006-09-02 14:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered you own question because you are happy forget the past.
2006-09-02 20:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start to be nice it will all work out
2006-09-02 14:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋