I was seeing some1 long ago, now we r both happy and separately married. Both saw others after we split. We are still friends. I recently saw a nude pic of hers on the net (obviously clicked by someone else). on a porn site - dont think she is aware, should I let her know
2006-09-02 07:30:53 · 29 answers · asked by RandomGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That was some lightening response..however, i dont plan to get back with her (v r married)..i was on a regular P2P porn site, vr I saw her pics along with 100 others, obviously it was taken by some1 she knows
2006-09-02 07:37:44 · update #1
There is nothing wrong in married guys watching porn... it is natural. Sometimes watch it with my partner - can give u the kicks. BUT my wife does not know my X (i was clean between X and wife)
2006-09-02 07:42:00 · update #2
I would let her know you have seen it, but be prepared but that she might of agreed for it to be on there.
2006-09-02 07:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Does YOUR wife know that you've seen the pics? Telling your ex may alert your wife to the sites you've been looking at and make your relationship difficult. On the other hand, honesty usually pays off, but i would let your wife know if you're going to tell your ex first. Most women would want to know so that they could do something about.
2006-09-02 07:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay people, how naive are you there is nothing wrong with a married couple watching porn, it can grease the cogs. and as for erotic pictures, would never do it myself, but she was probably in a loving relationship and trusted this boyfriend of hers, and now he's betrayed her.
Damn yes, tell her, this woman needs to know before some other person uses them against her.
2006-09-02 08:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's quite a big deal you have. Do you think that would make her go mental if she knew?. Anyway WHAT R U DOING LOOKING AT PORN WHEN U R MARRIED?
2006-09-02 07:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should tell your ex and then she can try and deal with it by getting in touch with the site owners.
2006-09-02 08:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-09-02 07:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by poppy! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the corner. If you tell her, she'll probably wonder why you were at those sites in the first place, but if you don't, she'll be gawked at by millions of men. If I was in your situation, I might tell her and perhaps she'll thank you and perhaps might get together again.
2006-09-02 07:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by setoangel01 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd let her know straight away and if possible offer to help her get them removed.
2006-09-02 07:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by debbie t 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife needs to be told what your doin on the internet.
2006-09-02 07:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cowboy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no dont worry about telling her - she probably sent it into the website in the first place... why point out to her you are looking at porn?
2006-09-02 07:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋