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2006-09-02 07:25:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

no1 loves me and I feel ugly and stupid.I have no future

2006-09-02 07:28:43 · update #1

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future i wanted was to learn this guitar and have a band i doubt lll ever learn to stupid and ugly i seem to be



















































































































































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2006-09-02 07:35:37 · update #2

24 answers

Only after we go out on my boat ... drink wine ...find an island...play on the beach.

2006-09-02 07:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0 2

Everybody has a purpose in life, and sometimes that purpose doesn't become clear until later in life. You are here for a reason, and you are special, and I can promise you that you are definately loved very much. God loves you very much and wants you to be happy and live life to the fullest. Please know that God has a reason for your life, and no matter how hard life gets at times, HE is always there with you holding your hand and walking with you. If you haven't already, all you have to do is say and prayer and ask God to come into your heart and allow HIM to lead the way. HE loves you very much, and to be honest, I care about you too. I don't have to know you personally to care about you because that is what being a child of God is all about. Good luck and best wishes for the brightest of futures ( because if you are a child of God, you have the best future ahead of you)!!! Lots of love and prayers coming your way!! Hang in there!! :)

P.S. I love music and I have played trumpet for many years now. I have two guitars ( one acoustic and the other acoustic/electric) that I got when I decided to take guitar lessons. My instructor moved and I never finished the lessons. Now I have two guitars that I can't play! I too would love to learn to play those two guitars, but I am just as thankful for being able to learn the trumpet and for all the years I've had playing it. I am also thankful to be married to a wonderful man and expecting my first child. The point is: There will a whole lot more in your future to make your life worthwhile besides your guitars! *hugs*

2006-09-02 14:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by rainbowbright 2 · 1 0

You sound like you should get a note book open it up and start writing depressing poetry. First things first, I don't care if the rest of the world doesn't like you like yourself. I don't care if the ugly stick has beaten you so bad that you broke it. Love yourself. I wouldn't even joke with suicide one of my friends did a land dive in high school I'Ve never been the same and miss him like hell. Even now years and years after his death. His older sisters eyes where hauted for years. Many other did too, their lights are missed by me because truely there is no one who could replace.

I know it's hard to love yourself. Not everyone has the confidence I had when I was a kid and still do. Fake it, it's ok. It's the cheesiest thing to say but it's true. Love yourself and other will follow. Maybe not today and maybe not the next day but they will come. Maybe you're in high school that a hard gig darling. Most people there are full of crap. So just relax and swim with the turds.

Close your eyes lay down on those bad days and listen to the music that brings you up. God knows this will reveal my own damn age but I'll say it anyway. I listen to Metallica, They Might be Giants, REM, The Cure, Depeshe Mode and so on. They were so depressing that I'd feel invincible after listening. Even when I had people spitting on me for sounding too white not being black enough. Or even people were calling me a ****** and telling me they would kill me. I couldn't let it fully harm that which was me.


I truely believe that I am great as I believe you should feel that way about yourself. Ugly is only a word doesn't mean jack. I write this knowing you can take it any way but Ugly is good. All beauty is, just plain old commoness. We call people beautiful who we can look into their face and see so many other people there just that common. It's like they are so common they could be anyone. Ugliness now that is truely unique because it means you've looked into that face and it doesn't ring a bell, they are unique. I like to say screw every other fish in the pond I am going to be Plaid. Let all those other common colors beware.

So to answer your question hell no. You've got miles and miles to go. Appointments to keep new people to meet. Exotic and Erotic lands to explore.

I mean it if my college roommate who smelled like a skunk who died 3 months ago can get laid you'll not have to worry about that. You are luck because you have a great chance to make the important friends. The ones that go out a party with you and end up in slammer holding back you hair as you puke in the metal toilet. You know the ones true friends.

2006-09-02 15:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Attacus 2 · 5 0

No, don't die. I'm sure there is someone out there who thinks you are pretty and smart. You can learn guitar and have a band. It's better if you tried than not try at all. There's a lot of things in life you should be glad about. I care about you. Sure I don't know you, but you are yourself. There would be a lot of people who will be upset if you die. Your parents love you, and your friends do too. You will miss out on a lot if you die. Talk to a counselor, don't throw your life away because that's being selfish and not thinking.

Remember God loves you. He wants you to live your life to the fullest. He has plans for you. He does not want you to throw away your life. Pray to him and ask for help. He will always love you. I'll pray for you, and I'll talk to you if you want me to. I'll try comforting you in anyway if you need me to, but God will comfort you the most if you ask him and believe in him.

2006-09-02 15:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 1 0

i believe that every1 has a future u just have to go in the right path and surrond urself by the right people u have a purpose and God loves u dont take ur life for some1 elses fault its their lost u will become a sucessful person their the 1s missing out
Much Luvvvvvvv!!!
If u have any more questions hit me back or email me at:
mizprincess416@yahoo.com

2006-09-03 03:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tiarra R 1 · 0 0

I am sure that all of those things are not true. You are going to have a bright future if you finish high school and attend college. Do not let people tell you any different. Just remain positive and ignore ignorant assholes.

2006-09-02 14:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you have been told a LIE!!! Many care for you and the biggest person is God. That's why He sent Jesus to die for your sins and my own. Ask Jesus to come in your heart and quit listening to the lies of satan. He wants to steal from you, kill and destroy you.

We don't want you dead. We want you to live an abundant life full of happiness and joy. There will be many Christians praying for you today right NOW.

2006-09-02 15:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0 0

hey I thought I would never learn to play guitar but this one guy just offered to teach me for free. you never know, surprises are everywhere! also, I suggest learning drums instead because its easy to find a good guitar player, everyone plays guitar! but its so hard to find a decent drummer these days! if u wanna chat jsut send me a message!

2006-09-02 15:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no, there are lots of things that you need to be here for, why are you unhappy? really, are you okay, or just wanting attention because this is not something to joke about, i went through hell during my teenage years and with a little effort and support im doing fine.

2006-09-02 14:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Cherie 4 · 0 0

Well if you die you really will have no future. There's lots of programs to help people in your situation, find them.

2006-09-02 14:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0 0

there is always one person who loves you out there so you shouldn't want to kill your self. i personally think you need to talk to a guidance counselor at school or a counselor some where else. sometimes telling someone about your feelings makes you feel better especially when they actually listen to you.

2006-09-02 15:11:31 · answer #11 · answered by ga_bulldogs_12 1 · 0 0

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