2006-09-02 07:23:49 · 35 answers · asked by dfghhjfdhsgbw 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
He tells you.
Other than that, he is your son... love him and cherish him, and don't be a hater.
2006-09-02 07:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Please, allow me. Some of the answers are pretty good, some are just plain rediculous and I am assuming your asking a valid question.
To answer your question....YOU JUST KNOW. Most parents that i've worked with have told me that they've always known. Did your child have a stable father figure growing up? IT IS NOT GENETIC.
I wish you had told us what age your son is. If he is under 13, leave it alone. UNLESS you notice him becoming withdrawn, then you need to come into the picture. DO NOT make any suggestions of any sort. If you have made suggestions around your son regarding your opinion of gay ppl, in negative context, maybe you should find a subtle way of correcting that foul.
Do not snoop around hoping to find evidence, do not over-analyze his every action. Time will tell, but educate yourself and be ready for whatever happens.
I could better help you if I knew a few more details, feel free to contact me anytime.
CB
2006-09-03 15:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he shows feminine traits, like speaking like a woman and throwing body languages and perhaps giving you hints and also hanging out with guys and never with a woman or even talking much about them. Gay guys do have many girls as friends but not on the romantic role. Some can fool you and some can get over. Then again if you don't see masculine traits in your son -
watch out, the pot is about to burn.
2006-09-02 07:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a parent knows their child the signs are there.
You should be paying attention to everything. Just like any other behavior that's a bit off. Bad grades, drugs & alcohol, first crush, problem with a friend, etc.
If you and your child have a good open trusting relationship when he's ready he will tell you.
2006-09-02 07:31:13 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm style of interior the comparable boat right here. i'm pregnant with my maximum suitable acquaintances infant (who's gay) Him and his substantial different have been at the same time for 4 years now. We constantly have this communication many times. the nice and cozy button is i desire my infant to be responsive to that he has 2 daddy's who love him very lots and having 2 daddy's is greater clever than having one daddy. we are able to instruct him that sexuality isn't as substantial as having 3 finished mum and dad who love him dearly no remember what. i desire him to attain that being gay is totally ok. i desire him to understand that definite his dad is in love and could marry his different dad sometime and thats whats substantial. We cant administration the bullies in college and we cant block our babies from the harsh worldwide yet we are able to instruct our babies to love and forgive people who've crossed our direction and has harmed us in any way shape or variety. while my son arrives i be responsive to he would be only high-quality using fact he has a mom and a pair of fathers who will love him. communicate on your son and be honest. answer his questions the suitable way and only attempt to pay attention what he has to assert approximately it. you be responsive to he will take care of you and your substantial different to the fullest and could love you no remember what. I want you and your loved ones the main suitable of success and much and various happiness!
2016-10-01 05:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-02 08:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't. Don't let him surrender to the propaganda in the media! Tell him the truth and get him among people who know the truth and keep him away from those who try to abuse and or convince kids that just because they have raging hormones in their teenage years they do not have to succumb to this lie.
2006-09-02 07:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He tells you.
Making assuptions will only hurt your relationship with him. Make it very clear that he can talk to you about anything, but don't pressure him. Coming out is a big step and a personal journey in and of itself. Don't make it any harder than it already is by creating tension.
Also if you confront him about it, you may be wrong and seriously damage your relationship with him.
2006-09-02 07:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by phoebster818 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know. Why not just ask him? I know that I could have asked my son. If your son is gay, please love him and accept his sexuality as normal,just different than yours. God created all of us and He does not make mistakes.
2006-09-02 07:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You could ask him or just wait and let him tell you. I can't say you can tell b/c he does A, B, or C b/c i have straight male friends who have some feminine traits. Love him either way. :)
2006-09-02 07:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by Weasel 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When your wife asks for fashion and or decorating advice and he gives it!
2006-09-02 09:15:31 · answer #11 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋