I have had plans to go to the 2:15 movie 4 a week.He gets here at 1:00 and insist on vacuuming the carpet (I just vaccumed not 1 hour ago) and taking a shower even though we have to drop someone off and pick someone up in a diffrent town.
By the way he invited himself along.
But If his buddie wanted to go hunting he would be their in 10 min.
2006-09-02 07:20:09 · 14 answers · asked by Addie B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, next time LEAVE while he's in the shower!
He's not selfish, he's inconsiderate. A little payback will teach him to mind his manners. Men really are just children who are larger.
2006-09-02 07:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't really want to go and doesn't want to tell you directly because it would start an argument.
What movie was it, that would explain a lot.
It's good to spend time together but you have to find a common interest, otherwise, he'll always be trying to avoid hanging out because he simply doesn't enjoy the activity.
2006-09-02 07:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by tolula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So leave without him while he's in the shower, he'll think twice before messing around like this again.
2006-09-02 08:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just doen't get it. He is not necessarily selfish, but he has some old fashioned ideas about women's place being in the home.
May even feel that they should be kept barefooted and pregnant. Some guys are like that.
He appears to be male oriented and you are not exciting to him, hunting is
jaread
2006-09-02 07:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He is a guy and that is what they do. My husband is the same way. The thing to do is make him realize that he is that way. When he wants to do something you do the exact same things that he does to you . Then he will know that it is not cool for him to be treating you like that.
2006-09-02 07:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to go to the movie that is why he doing what he is doing, so just go by yourself and enjoy the day.
2006-09-02 08:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by carzone28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell your husband that a relationship is 50 50 and not to be so selfish,you are suppose to be the one that he respects
2006-09-02 07:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by B.B. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't want to go and is hoping you leave with him. He may have other plans.
But men do the weirdest thing anyway (and they say we weird)
2006-09-02 07:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when you are leaving and go....he chose to vacuum. He can meet you there.
2006-09-02 07:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him yourself, maybe he has a weird reason to be selfish.
2006-09-02 07:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by halotrixzdj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋