couple of years ago I dated this guy. All his female cousins and friends hated me because I was white. They were always spreading rumors about me and saying i slept around. I took a lot of crap form them. They threatened to beat my a** numerous times. He always told me to ignore them, they were petty. Just juvenile stuff. I eventually found he was a cheater, but these girls still hold a grudge. I live in the county next to them, but when I do venture a town over, they harass me. Why do some people feel the need to never grow up and always hold a grudge. Do they hate me becuase I'm white? This is Kentucky after all.
2006-09-02 07:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If you're not dating him anymore, who cares what they think? I doubt they're worth stressing over.
2006-09-02 07:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Trinity♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judy, people who act like those you mention have problems in their own lives which cause them to act this way. They possibly were abused, neglected, or abandoned in the past, or are now. We have all heard the statement "children learn what they live" and sadly this happens so often. There is nothing you can do to change them since they are so full of anger and hatred, as you might be hurt yourself by trying. The best thing for you to do is stay clear of them or the area in which they reside. Find friends and family to spend time with that will respect you for who you are. You will be much happier to forget that part of your past and move on for your own sake. I wish happiness for your life.
2006-09-02 14:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by son-shine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Colored women don't like "their" men dating white girls cause they say we are stealing all of their men away from them. I'm from Wisconsin and although there isn't as much of that it still goes on here too. I dated someone for 9 years and his family didn't treat me bad, but when we were at parties I would get a lot of bad looks and comments from friends of his family. Those people have nothing better to do with them selves and they are jealous of us beautiful white girl!!!! Ignore them and someday they will grow up.
2006-09-02 14:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Misty lynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are racists and hate whites. I don't know how to make it any plainer. If you live in Kentucky, you should understand that. I live in Maine, and this still goes on here too. People are inherently racist. It's something that thinking people try not to be.
2006-09-02 14:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by AuroraDawn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just ignorant and havent been taught to love others. I would just be better than them and ignore the taunts and such. Life will always be miserable for those who make others miserable.
2006-09-02 14:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cat D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop being nice and pretend your crazy. Next time they harass you, take out a weapon and cuss the sh/it out of the a.s.s.holes ok? Try it.
2006-09-02 14:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by savio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They hate themselves and take it out on you. Maybe they are just jealous of you. They are being racist. Sorry to hear that. Screw them.
2006-09-02 14:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love against all odds, they say.
see if it's worth the keeping.
2006-09-02 14:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by di_ako_guapo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his butt and ignore them they are not worth it.
If it doesn't bother you it spoils there fun. So they quit.
He couldn't be worth all that.
2006-09-02 14:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋