Ive been with my partner for 2 years. We dont live with each other but next door to each other although we divide our time in each others houses and he treats my son really well. We have discussed marraige but not yet. At the moment, my partner cant work but he does get benefits. I bring home a wage and we put our money together as if we lived together and i support him financially as after he pays his bills, he is left with nothing. My question here is, is it wrong that i support him or should he support himself somehow. Even though we dont live with each other, it actually feels like we do as we spend every night together whether he is in mine or im in his??
2006-09-02 07:00:27 · 12 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he probably going thru a hard time right now and needs some time. also he has commit problems
2006-09-02 07:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I were best friends for 6 years before we decided to get married. If you and your partner both feel comfortable with the situation, then that's all that is important. Don't let anyone else ever try to influence you, or lead you to think that what your doing isn't appropriate. It's your life. Sometimes getting married can ruin a relationship. You'll know when the time is right. In the meantime, enjoy the status quo and don't let anything materialistic destroy your happiness together. Times have changed, and it's perfectly acceptable now for a woman to be the primary bread winner.
2006-09-02 14:13:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. Is this just a temporary reason that he can't work or what? I think that if you are supporting him that you should at least be living together. It's not fair that you are basically supporting two households.
2006-09-02 14:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a couple is a couple , so how long have u and him been together if it been a long time i would see about living together , u already pay your bill together and it would be cheaper for the both of u
2006-09-02 14:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by sadley696969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a just reason for not working, if he does then it is up to you to make a decision whether to be with him or not. If does not have a good reason for not working then I would cut him off and see what he does. Good luck.
2006-09-02 15:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used. What is he doing for himself. You love this guy? why? what does he do for you other than spend your money> You are being taken advantage of. You marry this guy and I bet you think things will change, they won't. Why would they?
2006-09-02 14:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself is this going to change ?if the answer is no there is a very good chance of things going down hill due to the added burden on your own finances ,not to mention your relationship.
2006-09-02 14:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by nature4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall need to move in together, and no its nothing wrong wit you holding down your man right now, you a down a s s chick!
2006-09-02 14:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by THICKCHICK426 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As yet he must support himself.
2006-09-02 14:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he should try to get a job that way
you don't support him financially.
Dont you think he's using you?
2006-09-02 14:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by pagemitre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋