he is a friend of mine..i have no crush on him, basically nothing..no special feeling for him..we are just friend..
then, suddenly i keep thinking about him..i dont know why..but i just no feeling for him..i just treat him as a friend no more than that..all i can say he is a nice dude..but the thing is i like another guy..but why he always in my mind...i'm confuse !!!!!!!!
2006-09-02 06:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are two types of attraction between male and female human beings.
One is purely physical. Also usually short lived, because passion does not last.
The other is more spiritual. It is up to you to decide whether your attraction to these guys is purely physical or more spiritual.
If you are confused, it is a sign that one is physical and the other is spiritual. You must decide for yourself, but I would say that the one you are always thinking about is more than a friendship.
it would be a shame if you gave up a really good thing for some surface value that won't last. Move cautiously and don't rush your feelings.
Jaread
2006-09-02 07:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once read somewhere "love is often gentle, desire always a rage"i think you are just starting to love this guy.and the feeling is different because it is love and not the old and tested lust or infatuation.just relax and let your feelings grow.and then after a month or two you might have a better understanding of your emotions.
2006-09-02 07:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're so pathetic as to come onto the internet and ask a question that only you yourself knows the answer to. if you like another guy, then you're obviously not in love with the guys you're currently with. you definitely shouldn't be thinking about someone else if you're in a relationship. that's not love.
2006-09-02 06:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about the being in love part.. maybe you are beginning to like him in a different way.... not all feelings hit you like a lightening bolt.. lol..
2006-09-02 06:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you sey youdont have feelings for him then you dont or your not trying to admit to yourself that you do but wen your in love you'll know you wont have to ask. there might be a few doubts but for the most part...you know
2006-09-02 06:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by moogleliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you carry him in your spirit...if you pray for him more than you pray for yourself...if he is constant on your mind when he is away from you for more than an hour...and if, by his smiling, your world is alright, then you are in love with him. (Lines from Diary of a Mad Black Woman)
2006-09-02 07:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by pampam50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him. Try dating the guy you are attacted to.
2006-09-02 06:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's puppy love that happened to me too.
2006-09-02 06:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Forgotten Memories 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD R U ? U R INFATUATED.
2006-09-02 06:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by 1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋